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Watch this Pakistani woman slam the patriarchy with her slam poetry

Watch this Pakistani woman slam the patriarchy with her slam poetry

"I hope everyone takes a step towards a more pluralistic society," says Areesha Khwaja, an illustrator and a slam poet
Updated 20 Jul, 2016

A tribute to Qandeel Baloch is doing the rounds of the internet this week, and it tells all oppressors of women - in lovely, lyrical fashion - to back off.

A slam poem by illustrator Areesha Khwaja, the video titled 'Try beating me lightly: a slam poem' takes its title from the Council of Islamic Ideology's proposed ‘model’ Women Protection Bill that recommended that a man be allowed to "lightly beat" his wife.

In the poem, Areesha stresses that women need to be seen as human beings before anything else: 'Before being your sister, before being your daughter, before being your wife, before being a woman; I am human.'

She frames the poem as a tribute to Qandeel, saying that "I think the root cause of honor killing and any abuse of this kind is the belief that women are merely a property of men and they can do anything they'd like with them. Both these things are completely intertwined and had to be addressed this way."

She added, with reference to the proposed bill, “Whenever women [especially in Pakistan] stand up for their rights, it's men telling them to tone it down, [like suddenly they know everything a woman goes through in this society a lot better than the woman herself], labeling them with tags like "westernized" and "feminazi" in the part of the world where, in the 21st century, we are still fighting to just be treated like humans. I think it's very important that we don't let these people stop us.”

While the proposed bill was drafted in May, Areesha released this video after the murder of Qandeel Baloch.

“I decided to release this poem after Qandeel's brutal murder when suddenly many Pakistanis started to celebrate the murder of an innocent, woman, because she was "immodest". It was shocking and very depressing to see women ridiculing her without realizing that they can easily be a victim of this culture themselves,” she says.

The timing paid off and her poem was well received.

"I received a lot of support from all over the world. This person even messaged me saying that he made his friends listen to my poem and was glad that they actually got the message. He said even he was surprised when they agreed with him because they never talked about such a crucial topic," Areesha says.

“What made me very happy is that people are actually beginning to talk about the topics which were considered taboo not so long ago. I felt that as an artist I actually am playing my part and even in the midst of these dark times, I hope everyone takes a step towards a more accepting, understanding and pluralistic society,” she adds.


The writer can be reached on Twitter

Comments

Taimoor Khan Jul 20, 2016 03:06pm
According to the reports, Qandeel was murdered due to the money issues between her and the brother. Not sure where the honor come into this?
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inzy Jul 20, 2016 03:07pm
beautiful article and so are you xxx
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kash Jul 20, 2016 03:07pm
ppl taking ut of context. What the CII said was beating lightly with something very light like a twig not with bare hands etc.
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Zain Jul 20, 2016 03:15pm
Nice poem, Areesha. Good on you for spreading a vital message to our society.
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a Jul 20, 2016 03:40pm
Oh My God. Stay safe please !
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Amin Ansari Jul 20, 2016 03:42pm
I am a father and unfortunately only have boys and no daughter. I support Areesha completely. I agree the reasons she gives why females are treated as less than humans in Pakistani society. That has to change. That change has to come from us. My wife and I think Qandeel was a very brave girl. She should be applauded for her honesty and bravery in this society that discourages women empowerment.
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dilip Jul 20, 2016 03:57pm
excellent, a few more like u, will make extinct, all those bullies living in the dark ages
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Patrick Sarsfield Jul 20, 2016 04:05pm
It's impossible for us men in the west to comprehend why Muslim men treat their women so.. In any work situation I have been in, women always add a touch of class and male colleagues tend to act better
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Saleem Jul 20, 2016 04:15pm
Thanks Areesha for your poetry and I really appreciate your efforts to bring change. Pakistan needs change which should bring the tolerance in our society. We should get rid off Mullahs to save Pakistan.
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Syed Jul 20, 2016 04:32pm
what happened was very wrong but bigger tragedies are a daily occurrence in Pakistan. Let's highlight them instead...
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ahmed Jul 20, 2016 04:33pm
Excellent poetry and powerful reminder. GoWomen Go.. from a humble man
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Saira Jul 20, 2016 04:46pm
Powerful!
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JAi Jul 20, 2016 04:47pm
I like to see light beating to all those I'll headed clerics.
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srimanta majumdar Jul 20, 2016 05:04pm
Very nice poem respect from india. Hope even indian men realize this very soon!!!
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An American Jul 20, 2016 05:13pm
@Patrick Sarsfield ; Please, don't frame this as a muslim men issue. I am a non-muslim American man of Indian origin and unfortunately see this desire to control women as per the whims of man is prevalent in every society. It is shame most societies have to endure. It seems most of us recognize only a worse form of suppression and discrimination than the one we mete out. We in America have our own shames. Areesha's poem is powerful and meaningful to all people. Thanks Areesha.
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Jawaid kamal Jul 20, 2016 05:37pm
Great ,.Faiz would be proud of you..
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Zack Khan-usa Jul 20, 2016 06:14pm
Born and raised in Pakistan, I have yet to find women who are treated less than human! As a kid I listen to my mom, then got married and listen to my wife, now have a daughter who tells me what to do!!!
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Narvinnie Jul 20, 2016 06:28pm
Wow !! this is AWESOME. All I can say is You go girl. She is definitely a role model for young Pakistani Girls.
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P.R.Koduri Jul 20, 2016 06:41pm
What is to protect her right to life and liberty in a lawless society, Kangaroo Justice and medieval mindset? Even the parliament is complicit in stalling any Change.
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Been observer Jul 20, 2016 06:55pm
May Allah help her to succeed in this rebellion Against the unjust culture she is fighting from within. May Allah keep her safe from the crazy, deranged and so called brothers of our society.
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Keen observer Jul 20, 2016 07:00pm
I am a son from a mother that had sacrificed her life for me and my siblings, brother whose sisters are facing the challanges society has imposed on them, while I enjoying the fruits of freedom, husband whose wife Ives and deservingly so the life she wishes and yet makes me feel special in every possible way and father of my lovely girls whose future I work for and hope not to leave a world that Ayesha voices again. Let's all support her voice and start from within to respect the rights of these precious women in our lives. May Allah guide us through all this. Aameen.
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Fandom Beyond the Borders Jul 20, 2016 07:01pm
Her poetry is as stunningly beautiful as she herself is.
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Fandom Beyond the Borders Jul 20, 2016 07:01pm
Her poetry is as stunningly beautiful as she herself is.
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Saleem Jul 20, 2016 07:09pm
Definitely worth-watching the video and worth-reading the article! The message should go on! A lamp lights another lamp! All the best,
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Zulu Jul 20, 2016 07:19pm
Hats off.....
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N_Saq Jul 20, 2016 08:08pm
To stop this menace (mistreatment of women), everyone has to do their part. If you can write to educate then write, if you can speak up then speak up etc. Media has to do its part and keep the fire burning until the criminals are punished severely. State is missing or sleeping, it is time to wake it up. No one should dare be allowed to take the law into their own hands. Laws need to be enacted and then enforced. Punishments need to be carried out with severity so no one dare mess with the law.
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shah Jul 20, 2016 10:49pm
WOW you hit the nail on the head. Very Good. Thank You for sharing your thoughts
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ozzy Jul 20, 2016 11:05pm
@JITENDER ARORA what about india?, why women suffering even more there.
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suppy Jul 21, 2016 07:07am
this is extraordinary hatts of to you areesha what a powerful voice i totally agree with each and every phrase .... you ho girl excellent job
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Budfox Jul 21, 2016 11:32am
Way to go sister, your are indeed a whiff of fresh air in this rotten world ruled by moth-eaten religious nutcases.
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Budfox Jul 21, 2016 11:38am
@Zack Khan-usa get real and get some education, zack. If Your house hasn't been robbed it doesn't mean that there are no robberies going on in the world.
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Shyam Jul 21, 2016 11:43am
@kash " What the CII said was beating lightly with something very light like a twig" so considering the physique men should be beaten with a big branch ? Such primitive thoughts !!!.
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Firebolt Jul 21, 2016 12:03pm
@kash doesn't make it okay.
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ozzy, kashmir Jul 21, 2016 02:49pm
@Shyam it is meant to be used as an extreme last resort and not for petty ossues. This is when the wife is cheating etc and not changing her behaviour after having been warned twice already. Plus its not to hurt its a symbolic tap with a miswak. The prophet pbuh even advised to use this at the absoloute last resort. Its a symbolic tap to show this is the last line or dovorce. This is tge last warning to symbolically show that the next step is divorce.Ofcourse ppl twist this and beat their wives which is wrong. And ofcourse if if its the husband cheating then the wife has the right to divorce and the ulema says this.Islam is the fairest of all, it gives respect to everyone. Before half of your comment atleast do research before making half empty comments and actually know what your talking about. Read the islamic point of view, and stop painting all mullahs with the same brush please.
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Imran AB Jul 21, 2016 03:33pm
Great "in your face' poetry ............. great message , great courage , great mind set ....
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Pennsylvania Jul 21, 2016 07:01pm
@Patrick Sarsfield Do I need to remind how you start treating women from high school and through college, need I remind that women are pushed to the side in any career including medicine, education or art....need I need to remind that women are harassed throughout the day on the streets, buses, trains, offices, schools. Yes what happened with Qandeel is absolutely wrong, no question but don't say that "us" men in the West can't understand. You do understand cause you've been harassing and raping women for the longest!
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Pennsylvania Jul 21, 2016 07:06pm
@Keen observer Well said my friend.
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kuttathi Jul 24, 2016 09:25am
Thank you girl for giving voice to Qandeel.You are not alone.Hope Indian muslim men hears you.Indian Muslim women has a lot less freedom and respect from their own men, in comparison to the rest of the soceity.
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