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Mukhtar Mai attends US opera inspired by her story

Mukhtar Mai attends US opera inspired by her story

"I was very emotional when I first started watching it and began reliving the incident in my mind," shared Mai
17 Jun, 2017

Fifteen years after her horrific gang rape by a local clan in her village in Pakistan, Mukhtar Mai is reliving her ordeal -- and courageousness -- through a US opera inspired by her story.

"I was very emotional when I first started watching it and began reliving the incident in my mind," Mai, 37, told AFP on Friday, after attending the Los Angeles premiere of "Thumbprint."

"But then as the opera progressed, it became easier to watch and I felt more courage," she said in Urdu, speaking through a translator.

"Thumbprint" first opened in New York in 2014 but Mai had never seen the opera until now
"Thumbprint" first opened in New York in 2014 but Mai had never seen the opera until now

The opera, by composer Kamala Sankaram and librettist Susan Yankowitz, recounts Mai's 2002 rape and her decision to defy her attackers and take them to court -- an unusual move in male-dominated Pakistan, where a woman who suffers such a crime often commits suicide rather than endure the stigma and shame associated with it.

"Thumbprint" first opened in New York in 2014 but Mai had never seen the opera. She traveled this week from her home in the remote Pakistani village of Meerwala to attend the West Coast premiere.

Kamala Sankaram (C) portrays Pakistani women's rights activist Mukhtar Mai in the opera 'Thumbprint', at the Roy and Edna Disney/Calarts Theater
Kamala Sankaram (C) portrays Pakistani women's rights activist Mukhtar Mai in the opera 'Thumbprint', at the Roy and Edna Disney/Calarts Theater

While the story onstage ends when Mai's rapists have been sentenced to death, in reality her attackers walk free -- seemingly going about their daily life with total impunity after their sentences were overturned on appeal.

The men had raped Mai -- with the approval of the village council -- as a punishment after her 12-year-old brother was falsely accused of having an illicit relationship with a woman from the dominant clan in the village.

"My rapists live across from my house and I try not to cross paths with them," said Mai, who used compensation money from her case to start several schools and a women's shelter in her village. "When I walk past, they taunt me and make catcalls."

In an added strange twist to her story, the children of her rapists attend her school, and the daughters of some of the village elders who ordered her rape have sought refuge at her shelter.

"Even though some members of my own family were outraged, I told them I could not turn away the kids as the school is here to serve everyone in the community," she said.

Mai, who married in 2009 and has three children, acknowledged that her story had empowered women in her village and beyond, giving them courage to stand for their rights.

But she said she held little hope that the legal system in her country would ever render her justice.

"All four of the men who raped me and the two village elders who ordered the rape are free," she said. "And they will only learn that what they did is a crime if they are punished."

Daily threats

She said she had grown tired of being the woman everyone points to because of her ordeal, in contrast to her rapists who are unconcerned and will likely never pay for their crime.

"I am the one who is always interviewed and put forward in this case," she sighed. "Why doesn't anyone confront them, why doesn't anyone point them out in the street and say, 'These are the people who committed horrific acts against Mukhtar Mai?'"

She said she receives threatening messages daily on her telephone, Facebook page or in person and is now afraid for the safety of her children.

."I have reported nearly 35 such threatening calls and incidents and only one person was arrested, but even he was let out on bail," she said.

"I want to make it known that if anything happens to me or my children and family members, the Pakistani government is responsible."

As for the opera inspired by her story, she doubts it could ever be shown in Pakistan, where it would certainly hit a nerve.

But, she said, "I would like it to be shown everywhere."

"And I would like for the people who committed this crime to be identified and come face to face with what they did."

Comments

Mohammad Afsar Jun 17, 2017 07:43pm
A sad story of human rights abuse experienced by a brave woman in Pakistan.We salute her courage.
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rameez Jun 17, 2017 07:44pm
sick of Pakistan justice system, Mai's apprehensions are right and natural that the legal system in our country would never render her justice.
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jaredlee67 Jun 17, 2017 08:28pm
Three things: One, this is an example of how corruption plagues a society if its leaders are corrupt to the core. Two, where is the Supreme Court now? Why no action has been taken against the rapists? Can't the SC re-open the case and provide justice w/o delaying proceedings? Three, I have serious concerns about the organizers of the opera as, regardless of their intentions, they did make M. Mai suffer by reliving her experiences. I wish the organizers had at a deeper level realized what it means to be raped. This is an example of commercialization of knowledge.
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Ukz Jun 17, 2017 09:26pm
We are sorry for horrific ordeal u went through. We are sorry that as a society we didn't bring the culprits to justice. But I pray and I'm pretty sure of it that nature justice will prevail. And u will watch it with ur own eyes here in this life.
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Muhammad Jun 18, 2017 12:23am
How about producing the show in Saraiki and play it melas in the Saraiki belt of Pakistan?
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INDEPENDENTTHINKER Jun 18, 2017 12:29am
If we can have more of these women stand up for their rights and bring to the attention of this world, what in most cases, is kept in the hiding, we can erode the injustices that are being directed towards women. Honor killings, forced marriages for underage girls, dowry expectations, etc. have no place in the 21st century. Get rid of this thinking and we can see our country prospering once again!
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Azhar Jun 18, 2017 02:20am
Good, find a way to award her with NOBEL too!
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Maneendra Rathore Jun 18, 2017 08:34am
No comments on this topic. Isn't this lady deserve support of our people. Until we accept the mistake of our society how it is going to change. But the people are avoiding the inconvenient way it seems.
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Zala Jun 18, 2017 08:40am
Shame. Shame shame. So disappointed with the legal system of Pakistan.
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Nasir-London Jun 18, 2017 03:16pm
@Azhar: Shes' a great lady to be loved and respected.
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Alanore Jun 19, 2017 12:19pm
All women should stand up for their rights in Pakistan so they dont end up like Mukhtara mai.
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