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In their new collection, designer duo Deepak & Fahad ask, what if the real problem is how we’re raising our sons?

In their new collection, designer duo Deepak & Fahad ask, what if the real problem is how we’re raising our sons?

Their women’s wear debut, ‘HER’, is a reminder that without better-educated, better-raised men, the fight for girls’ empowerment remains incomplete.
03 Oct, 2025

Put aside girls’ education for a moment and focus on the real, pressing issue at hand — better social upbringing and proper education of the male-child: our sons, brothers and male cousins. For these are the very people who go on to hold the reins of families and decision-making powers in a patriarchal society such as ours.

As you read through the daily newspaper, turn on the TV news bulletin or scroll through popular social media portals, they are full of crimes perpetuated against young women and female members by the men in their families due to narrow mindsets and external influences, including peer pressure. There simply cannot be any argument about the fact that this has to end sometime soon!

Advocating for the male child’s proper education needs to be the first and foremost issue on the minds of enlightened Pakistani society members. And what better way to raise awareness than through fashion’s visual imagery and a strong social commentary?

Here, designer duo Deepak and Fahad present their powerful debut women’s wear collection, titled ‘HER’, to underline this pressing issue at hand.

This strong social message rings true now more than ever, with a very disturbing rise in crimes being committed regularly against young women as social media celebrities, influencers, bloggers and content creators by their biological fathers, brothers and even first cousins.

Models Maleena Mansoor and Yasmeen Hashmi work with educational paraphernalia such as books, scrolls of writing paper and other elements of script to underline the utility and importance of education in one’s life, to become better individuals in society.

“The synergy was seamless as everyone was on the same wavelength, which made the process very fluid and enjoyable,” says Fahad. “Maleena and Yasmeen were an absolute joy to work with — they grasped the mood of the shoot instantly, followed directions with ease, and still brought their own personality into each frame. That balance made everything feel very natural.

“The funniest BTS [Behind The Scenes] moment was with the paper planes — instead of sailing across the frame, they kept landing on Maleena, which had all of us in stitches. But right in the middle of that laughter and chaos, the photographer Umair Bin Nisar managed to capture the perfect shot.”

Fahad adds: “What we really appreciated was how open everyone was to experimentation. It wasn’t about sticking rigidly to the plan, but about letting the concept evolve naturally. A fun moment was when the apples and scattered notes, which were originally background props, ended up becoming part of the overall narrative. That spontaneity brought an extra layer of authenticity and playfulness.”

The urgent need of the times is for us to rethink the younger generation’s educational criteria. Advocating the right to education for the girl-child is all well and good but what cannot be ignored is the intimidating dark shadow of the narrow-minded male-child, lacking proper education, social grooming and upbringing, which looms behind girls’ backs as a potent threat to their well-being.

Originally published in Dawn, ICON, September 21st, 2025

Comments

Syed Hasni Oct 03, 2025 02:54pm
Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything he learned in school. Albert Einstein
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JAMIL SOOMRO Oct 03, 2025 05:12pm
When it comes to education the first name that comes to my mind is that of the great Sir Syed Ahmad Khan the Founder of Aligarh Muslim University. We miss you Sir.
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Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad Oct 03, 2025 06:16pm
Education remains forever.
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Ehsan Oct 03, 2025 06:23pm
Women have to work hard, educate, get financially independent, be confident to reclaim their space, nobody will give it to them on a platter
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Laila Oct 04, 2025 12:32am
What IF?? IF????? The problem IS how most Pakistanis raise boys, or rather, DON'T raise boys. Upbringing is left to friends, internet, pornography, social media, and the streets. Boys are allowed to do whatever, whenever and with whomever, they like. No restrictions, no curfew, no accountability, no questions asked, no limits, no self-control, no social control, no decrying lost izzat or "what will people say?". All that is saved for girls, who can't even own their minds, hearts, bodies and life but are responsible for entire family honor. Our culture, our mentality, dramas prove and perpetuate these double standards. How can boys become leaders, guardians of they are not raised, held accountable, kept in their limits and taught their responsibilities? That's why this nations breeds mostly mummy's boys; coddled, pampered and treated as Gods, who can do no wrong. "Boys will be boys."
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Darpok Oct 04, 2025 11:12am
Where are the pictures corresponding to the narrative?
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Darpok Oct 04, 2025 11:13am
The narrative not supported with sufficient number of images - to make the best out of this writeup!
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Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad Oct 04, 2025 04:26pm
Upbringing of both boys and girls is important.
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Laila Oct 05, 2025 12:46am
Despite education the root issue is so hard wired, it will take generations to undo. Until females are seen as equal participants in society, things won't change. Females are not property to be owned. Females are not responsible for male/family honor. Females are born free with rights, choice and autonomy. Jahil awaam deliberately twisted a common sense slogan. They would not have objected, if the slogan has been: Aurat/larki ka jism, sub larkay/mardon ki marzi. Then again, Pakistan IS responsible for providing "education" to the Taliban next door (well documented). Enough said. When females are seen as property of males and not free fallible humans with rights, the result is a misogynistic society like Pakistan. Disclaimer: yes, not all Pakistani males. But most.
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Laila Oct 05, 2025 01:53am
Education is knowledge. Knowledge is power. That is one major reason why female illiteracy is disproportionately higher for females. Most females won't even finish basic schooling due to family/cultural tradition, being forced into child labor to support their families. The drop out rate is high. And even today you find many city people advocating girls should not have access to higher education because "they won't need it and will be married off anyways". Marriage, child birth can not be the only life goals for females. They also need to be independent, financially independent and allowed to fulfill their dreams and ambitions. We don't want to females to get knowledge because then they will use that knowledge and claim rights which will disturb the power balance. It all comes down to power.
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