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Nabila's post on the #MeToo movement is very confusing

Nabila's post on the #MeToo movement is very confusing

To simply sum it up, she doesn't make any point at all...
03 May, 2018

Since Meesha Shafi levelled sexual harassment allegations against Ali Zafar, we've seen quite a few celebrities attempt to be fair to both artistes when voicing their views about the controversy.

However, Nabila totally fails this balancing act and doesn't make any point at all.

In her recent Facebook post, she starts out by making it clear that she knows and admires both Ali and Meesha:

Then, the make-up guru talks about the need to refrain from exploiting the #MeToo movement in Pakistan and at first read, it appears like she's implying that Meesha is doing just that:

"Although I don’t like getting involved in any politics but seeing the divide and undying obscenity surrounding the allegations I want to make a point here and request my colleagues to refrain from manipulating the #metoo movement for their personal vendetta or instant fame.

"This platform should be used sacredly and responsibly to educate our next generation of their rights that may have been blurred up until now."

But then, she follows it up with the following statement:

"Regardless of gender, age, [caste], creed or status, [it's] never acceptable to force yourself upon another person without their consent. It’s also not acceptable to ever be violated and stay silent with shame."

So Nabila agrees that sexual harassment is a bad thing and staying quiet is not an option, so how is speaking up about your experience the equivalent of exploiting a global movement? Maybe Nabila is not commenting on Meesha's allegations at all. Perhaps she's criticising the people commenting on the controversy. Maybe she's trying to send a message to someone else. Who knows?

Comments

Alexey May 03, 2018 06:47pm
Hers is the only message that made sense to me.
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SAMI May 03, 2018 09:17pm
Sensible comment. Messha Shafi should apologize to Ali zafar for allegations of sexual abuse.
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Aiza May 03, 2018 09:28pm
Very confusing ended!
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Farhan May 03, 2018 10:56pm
I am not sure where is the ambiguity. She has clearly hinted that #metoo should not be used for personal vendetta/instant fame. Furthermore, she has clearly stated her stance on work related ethics and she stands with the truth. By giving a detailed background on Zafar, she has shown confidence in him and that she believes he cannot be involved in this heinous act.
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Shaukat May 04, 2018 01:40am
No, it's not confusing at all, she analyzed both persons beautifully as per her wisdom and dealing and seeing both grown up talented artists. She is not applying anything to anybody. I think she has a tone of reconciliation in her statement.
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Ali May 04, 2018 04:40am
We must support #MeToo wholeheartedly, yes there is no option in silence. We must speak and let this taboo go forever. Being victim of sexual harassment is no shame, the shame is for the person who does and still enjoy his/her status in society. There is much more to one isolated incidents in our industry and it’s also across the gender. All men abd women must expose the habitual hereasors..
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Right May 04, 2018 04:54am
Obviously she is saying that meessha is lying and using metoo for her benefit.
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fika77 May 04, 2018 07:40am
I don't see any confusion in her message.
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