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Osman Khalid Butt schools man who thinks a ‘good wife’ is just unpaid domestic labour

Osman Khalid Butt schools man who thinks a ‘good wife’ is just unpaid domestic labour

The actor dished out a healthy dose of sarcasm while responding to a regressive take on X.
20 Oct, 2025

Osman Khalid Butt fired back at an X user for trying to perpetuate misogynistic ideas on what a woman should and shouldn’t do in a marriage.

In a move that surprised absolutely no one, a Pakistani man expressed an incredibly regressive take on a scene from the drama Jama Taqseem in which the lead, Qais (Talha Chahour), blames his wife Laila (Mawra Hocane), for how difficult their life has gotten since they moved out of his parents’ house.

Ignoring just how much of a manchild Qais was being, a user on X took things several steps further, posting a list of things he considers non-negotiable in a marriage. Telling men on the internet not to marry a woman who, among other things, “leaves your shoes and socks dirty” and “doesn’t know how to tie a tie,” he thought he was giving out valuable life advice.

Osman Khalid Butt did not take this lightly; he went in all guns blazing, issuing a 26-point proclamation listing down all the many duties of a Pakistani wife. The actor advised men not to marry a girl who “fails the saalan consistency test,” “refuses to exorcise the jinn hiding your car keys,” and “thinks a man can, God forbid, operate a washing machine”.

Fans were quick to agree with Butt in the comments, telling the “king” he was “on fire”. One even asked if this was why the star hadn’t gotten married yet.

While Butt’s response is witty, it points to a dark reality in Pakistan where domestic violence is unfortunately common. A report by the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan said 90 per cent of women in Pakistan had experienced domestic abuse at some point in their lives.

In a country where men get triggered by chants of “apna khana khud garam karo” (warm your own meals), tying a woman’s ‘worth’ in a marriage to household chores is not only backwards, it’s dangerous.

Comments

Syed Hasni Oct 20, 2025 03:14pm
جوابِ جاہلاں باشد خموشی I still have some advice, work hard and safe 20K US dollars, Elon Musk is coming out with a Tesla Robot which can do all the chores on this list and many more.
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JAMIL SOOMRO Oct 20, 2025 03:53pm
The list "might" apply to a traditional uneducated village girl getting married. But certainly not to an educated girl in 2025. Hire domestic help voila problem solved. And no headache too.?
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FARIDA RAMAN Oct 21, 2025 04:39am
Despite all education and modern attitude, a Desi man will never change, and he would always expect from his wife the same treatment what he received from his mother.
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Malini Oct 21, 2025 06:38am
Very true! Once you are married you litterally become the mans slave. Then, in case of a divorce you are left with children and has to struggle for survival. People ridicule single parents too. Govt. must make the man deposit X amount of money in a trust fund for the woman and for each child so that at least she could live on that money in a case of a separation, until she could find a survival method. In most of the cases wife had to leave empty handed burdened up with children to look after all alone. It becomes a mental anguish.
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Malini Oct 21, 2025 06:43am
I think you should mention this idea to the United Nations, Human Rights groups and ask them to entrust the man to create a trust fund in the name of the wife and the children.
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Sacred geometry Oct 21, 2025 11:55am
So a Desi boy can't learn to do its own chores & now is waiting for robot for it? is it really that difficult to be a functional adult as a male?
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Laila Oct 21, 2025 01:08pm
@Jamil Soomro Hiring help is not possible for all. Some can't afford it. Ssome mothers in-laws won't allow this because they want to pass on the generational trauma and think they should enslave the daughter in law instead. Educated females will also put up with a lot of abuse out of fear of divorce because divorce for women is still a stigma, "stain" and girls are still viewed as burdens parents need to get rid off asap. You need to see this through the eyes of females. It's 2025 in the world, but still 1025 in Misogynistic Pakistan mindset- and tradition wise.
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