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Afghans are just like you and me and today, they're helpless and abandoned, says Anoushey Ashraf

Afghans are just like you and me and today, they're helpless and abandoned, says Anoushey Ashraf

She posted a heartfelt note asking people to be kind and true Muslims and stop harbouring hatred towards anyone.
17 Aug, 2021

Afghanistan is now in the hands of the Taliban and thousands of Afghans are desperately looking for ways out of the country. Videos of Afghan men clinging to the wheels and wings of planes and then plummeting to their death will tell you just how desperate they are to leave. But amidst this, there have been many voices praising the Taliban takeover. Anoushey Ashraf isn't one of them — she's calling for people to be more kind.

The actor and RJ shared a lengthy but very necessary post on Afghanistan on Instagram. In the post she shared pictures of a trip she made to the country in 2016 for a TV show.

"On this trip I met girls who wanted to cycle for the Olympics, boys who only wanted to be the next Messi. I met Imams at masjids who greeted me with love, respect and duas. I met fantastic TV hosts who were living under tense conditions but were also excited about the new game shows they were launching. I met writers, poets and restauranteurs. I met children of the Hazara, beautiful even with their traumas," she recalled.

"They were exactly like you and me. And today, they’re helpless, homeless and abandoned."

This doesn’t make the government or the Americans my heroes, she clarified. "But are the Taliban any better? So stop your hate. In this moment, whoever leads the nation it’s still in a crisis and people's lives have been disrupted all over again. Not fair!" she cried.

She also raised one point that no one seems to realise. "No one wants to leave their homes and live as a refugee," she said. People against refugees seem to believe that these people willingly and happily leave their homes and possessions to live in refugee camps thousands of miles away, where they are often not even afforded dignity or a comfortable place to sleep.

"Look at the second last picture in this series," Ashraf asked, referring to a collage of portraits. "I photographed each of them. They’re humans with dreams. Please ask yourself why you grew up to be so bitter, that instead of giving people the room to breathe, you abuse them, give them titles like ‘yeh liberals’. Please be kinder. Be a true Muslim on the inside and you’ll never harbour hate for anyone in this world," she wrote.

"Sure, the people in power say they want peace, but to many peace only comes on their terms," the actor explained. "Peace means girls not working and men not playing sports. Surrender means peace. Not a single life and their true dreams come into consideration. If you think this is ‘good’ let me remind you it’s the innocent losing their right to be free for these leaders (Taliban or not) to feed their agenda, politics, power and greed. NOTHING ELSE," she wrote.

"The Taliban says they’re ready to evolve and give women and children their rights. Let’s not hail them heroes yet. They’ve said they have learned from the past. Only time will tell. Reaching out to all my Afghan friends tonight, you are in my prayers. Humanity first."

Of the many people — including celebrities — posting about Afghanistan, Ashraf's post really struck a chord with us. Her pictures don't show people crying and mourning, they show happy people, full of hopes and dreams. Just like us. We hope that people can be empathetic towards Afghans right now — they've lost more than you can imagine and all they want is for them and their families to be safe.

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Captain Safdar Aug 17, 2021 01:18pm
What does she has to say about women in south punjab, interior sindh and other remote areas in Pakistan before she goes over to worry about afghanistan?
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ali Aug 17, 2021 01:59pm
No they are not. Stop propagating Western views for women.
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Chrís Dăn Aug 17, 2021 02:01pm
My heart is weeping on future of Afghan women.
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Maxx Aug 17, 2021 02:02pm
If Mormons, Mennonites, Amish, and Lutherans and other christian groups can follow their religion in America, then why can't people in Afghanistan follow their religion?
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Black Fungus Aug 17, 2021 02:08pm
Yes Afghans are just like you and me but they developed a hatred for Pakistan for the last two decades. They practiced ritual anti Pakistan slogans. They attacked Pakistanis physically and verbally all over the world. Because Pakistan was perceived as being on the losing side. Now of course they claim Pakistanis are their brothers. Just don’t be fooled by a change of tone.
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ENGR Hamid shafiq Aug 17, 2021 02:19pm
Cheap publicity by Anoushey
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M. Saeed Aug 17, 2021 02:23pm
Good days of remembrance. I remember when Taliban first came to rule Afghanistan, most of the female beauticians of Afghanistan shifted to Islamabad and other cities of Pakistan. They were then, considered the best. Then, the whole art was lost and died.
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Tadka Aug 17, 2021 02:42pm
U could have written same words without your glamorous photoshoot
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Immad Asad Aug 17, 2021 02:43pm
Stop talking start acting... host one of the families at your place if you really feel for em!! All you are seeking is attention and PR... look back at the damage (a large chunk) of these so-called immigrants did to our country in form of terrorism, mugging , kabsa group and what not.. Yet we have people like her preaching something they dont act upon themselves!!!
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Tariq Aug 17, 2021 02:47pm
Definitely fearful and uncertain but should work for country and reestablish genuine leadership given the circumstances. No American or west can do for them except to safe guard their interest.
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Sane Mind1st Aug 17, 2021 03:00pm
@Captain Safdar ghar ki murghi daal barabar.
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Chrís Dăn Aug 17, 2021 03:07pm
@Maxx they all follow secular constitution of USA and are NOT out of control.
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asif Aug 17, 2021 03:18pm
Well done Anoushey to speak your heart despite the onslaught by pro taliban media and generals who give such a rosy picture of afghanistan as its become a swizerland i have one question for them why these generals and pro taliban media persons not migrating to afganistan along with their daughters and sisters to live a happy life under a tribal so called sharia law of illiterate taliban
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Abuzar Aug 17, 2021 03:27pm
they are not abandoned, oppressors left. after 20 years.
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SHAHID SATTAR Aug 17, 2021 03:27pm
So, you were able to locate a woman wearing the Afghan style burqa. Did you buy the same or was it rent out to you?
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Habibullah Shaikh Aug 17, 2021 03:31pm
its not as depicted by the writer; there has to be some difference, it is just the brainwashing at the start.
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sherry saleem Aug 17, 2021 04:17pm
these so called celebrities waste no time in getting cheap publicity... first she should talk about women issues in india and palestine .. but for that she does not have guts . its better she should keep her mouth shut .... if u dont know about ground reality , u should not speak at all...
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A. ALI Aug 17, 2021 05:04pm
She lives in social media, at least I dont know her for her achievements, if any.
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LgbtqX Aug 17, 2021 05:24pm
Stop playing victim card, Talibans are Afghans too.
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Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad Aug 17, 2021 05:27pm
United we stand, divided we fall.
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Hesus Oieway Aug 17, 2021 06:10pm
Well said Anoushay - when the snakes bites us in the form of TTP, maybe then?
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Haroon Temueri Aug 17, 2021 06:31pm
Were you sleeping or did you suffer memory loss when west especially Americans were abusing Afghans and raping their women
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Ch. S Aug 17, 2021 07:05pm
Will she get a US visa now?
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M khan Aug 17, 2021 07:55pm
Helpless and abandoned? That’s not what PMIK said yesterday. He said Afghans have thrown off the yoke of slavery.
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FAZ Aug 17, 2021 08:06pm
@Captain Safdar Exactly.
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nk Aug 17, 2021 10:43pm
First take care of your own country. Did you heard the Taliban spokesperson's press conference.?
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Malik Aug 18, 2021 01:33am
I would worry about women in Pakistan.
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Albert Ross Aug 18, 2021 02:30am
@Ali: Who Are Not what?
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Albert Ross Aug 18, 2021 02:31am
@Maxx : Who said Afghans can't?
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Albert Ross Aug 18, 2021 02:37am
@Tariq, Only Pakistan can help Afghans!
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Saeed Aug 18, 2021 02:38am
@Maxx Everyone have right to follow there beliefs,but absolutely no right to tell other or run the country according to there religious beliefs.
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TA Aug 18, 2021 05:20am
@Captain Safdar, w respect , really? is that all you had to say after reading her thoughts? Why dont you say something about our sisters and daughters at mentioned places?
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Akil Akhtar Aug 18, 2021 05:44am
They are not our friends time has told us that....Anoushey can put them in her house...they are not welcome in Pakistan any more.
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JM Aug 18, 2021 08:58am
You should not waste time worrying about Afghani women problems. Focus on our women issues.
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Alih Kazmi Aug 18, 2021 09:24am
Another case in point, the importance of distinction between a celebrity and an intellectual.
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Hassan Aug 18, 2021 10:50am
They are not abandon. They are free now as they wanted. In nations you need to listen to majority and accept it gracefully. This is also called democracy. So let them live the way they want and do not enforce your way of life on them!
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Hassan Aug 18, 2021 10:53am
@Chrís Dăn Yes we saw that on 6 Jan and the photo of afghan presidential palace was no different then US congress. Unfortunately American are left with nothing!
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Christine Aug 18, 2021 11:33am
@Saeed At the same time the no one has right to destroy the religious and cultural values of society! P.S. Prime example "out of control" elites in Pakistan!
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Ali da Malanga Aug 18, 2021 11:39am
@Chrís Dăn - "My heart is weeping on future of Afghan women." Why?
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raheel Aug 18, 2021 11:17pm
Afghans are attacking Pakistanis here in the UK. Yet this lady is crying for them.
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