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'They don't even spare children': Nida Yasir calls out trolls for making fun of her son's hair

'They don't even spare children': Nida Yasir calls out trolls for making fun of her son's hair

Netizens bullied the host's son for the length of his hair and we're so glad she pushed back at them.
04 Aug, 2021

Actor and host Nida Yasir is angry for all the right reasons and so are we. She recently called out incidents of cyber-bullying against her young son after she posted pictures of him celebrating his birthday.

The Good Morning Pakistan host posted pictures of her son on Instagram to mark his birthday, sharing the celebrations with her followers.

"Happy birthday my love," she captioned the pictures. "The coolness of my eyes. My heart's peace and the light of our home. May you live a thousand years."

The pictures were really adorable and showed Yasir's son jubilantly posing with his birthday cake. Sadly, it wasn't long before people started to make fun of the length of her son's hair, of all things. There were many vicious comments under Yasir's post saying that the length "made him look like a girl rather than a boy".

"Get him a boy's haircut, " commented one troll. "You've made him look like a girl."

Another troll also highlighted on the son's appearance and said, "For a second I thought Nida baji was sharing pictures of herself from her own childhood."

Yasir replied to a comment that asked why she wasn't getting her son's hair cut. "It's his style and I love it," she snapped back. "Do you have an issue?" We definitely don't blame her for losing it, such remarks are truly uncalled for.

Days after posting her son's pictures from his birthday, Yasir took to Instagram once again to post a picture of her son with his hair cut conventionally short. "New hairstyle of my son. These online trolls don't even spare children."

We're glad Yasir called out the negative comments against her son, although we do hope that she didn't get her son's hair cut short because of the bullying. If it was her son's choice to get it cut, regardless of the online remarks, then more power to him! Giving into the pressure created by trolls though isn't the best way to fight back.

What Yasir's son endured is a classic example of cyber-bullying. While bullying adults is bad enough, there's something exceptionally vicious about bullying children. Comments that target a child's appearance and display gender bias can leave emotional and psychological wounds and hinder wellbeing and growth.

Whether Yasir's son wants to keep his hair short or long, that is entirely up to him. We should be building him up by supporting his choices — whether online or in person. The Good Morning Pakistan host may be a celebrity but that doesn't give anyone a licence to hurl negative comments at her son — or any member of her family for that matter.

Cyberbullying isn't anything to new. Ghana Ali also had to call out trolls in July when followers obsessively questioned the actor about her husband's weight and appearance. Actor Hania Aamir broke down in tears after she experienced extreme cyber-bullying, revealing how badly her mental health was impacted by negative comments. If this can happen to a fully grown adult then there's no denying the extent of damage cyber-bullying causes to young children.

If you don't like someone's haircut or hairstyle, that's your prerogative. If you don't want to get that style, don't, but keep your mean comments to yourself. Bullying a child for anything is pretty low. So lesson of the day — learn to be civil towards children, everyone. Keeping our words in check will help make the world a better place for them to grow in.

Comments

Ibrahim S Aug 04, 2021 03:53pm
Pakistani men’s rational genes were muted during dictator Zia’s Regime.
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Bilal Aug 04, 2021 04:12pm
If someone share anything in social media, they must know you have given a chance to public to share what they think either positive or negative. Otherwise don't share it on social media. It's the basic rule if you being something in market plus and minus counts about it. Be mature to digest the negativity, others aren't his parents but you are. You can't get what you want from social media
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NoVoice Aug 04, 2021 04:14pm
First expose all your personal life for commentary of public for sake of cheap publicity. Then get butthurt and get more publicity. Mission accomplished!
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zebswati Aug 04, 2021 04:30pm
Cyber bullying of any type is regrettable, But as you choose the path of publicity and earn through it , than its not only profit , fun and money LIKES only., Best balance is don't sell your "Personal space"! . So your choice to use or show your children in the glamour side at very young age even when they don't understand the meaning and are under open to every eye , can be quite damaging for them! as Cyber space has no limits or boundaries defined. For children just say "Handle with care" until they are able to handle themselves . See Celeb who want to keep their children OFF from their public life many examples . E.g Kohli and Anushka and many many more .
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Badtameez Kudi Aug 04, 2021 05:06pm
From a fine decent-looking person, that millions of household-women used to look up to; she's turned herself into a complete disaster. Why ARY has kept her on board is beyond comprehension.
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Wasim Aug 04, 2021 05:12pm
One has to be civil to teach civility. Her reply "koi masla" tells all
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M. Saeed Aug 04, 2021 05:14pm
Nobody has cared to say the obvious that, going to the barber shop is the biggest exposure to Covid infection these days. All parent must ensure this and let their children grow long hair instead of getting the horrible virus home. A little hair-cut of children can always be performed by their mothers. There are several simple video demonstrations easily available online for them.
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Jigen Aug 04, 2021 05:19pm
Drama queen wants spotlight
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Sane Mind1st Aug 04, 2021 05:57pm
In the first place, why post the picture? And if posted expect the unexpected and all sorts of comments. After all there are 8 billion people in this world, all having their own views.
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well-wisher Aug 04, 2021 07:03pm
Well said Nida. Hairstyle is a personal choice. Never give in to trolls who should MTDBusiness.
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Sab Se Pehle Pakistan Aug 04, 2021 07:12pm
Losers will do anything to get cheap publicity. Who cares about you or your children's hair style. We have a Pandemic to worry about. People are losing their loved ones.
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Nayyar Rashid Aug 04, 2021 07:38pm
then don't put your son's pictures on social media if you don't have the heart to take criticism
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Usman Ali Aug 04, 2021 10:00pm
What cyber bullying?! She posted a weird pic of her son in which he actually looked like a girl; then why cry when sane people found the pic awkward?
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Truth be told Aug 04, 2021 11:03pm
@Bilal absolutely. Just my words!
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Truth be told Aug 04, 2021 11:05pm
@well-wisher the style probably resembles her beaver.
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skb Aug 04, 2021 11:29pm
@Bilal agree and these 'celebrities' should avoid posting their children's photo for security and keeping their privacy . When will they learn.
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Sami Aug 04, 2021 11:46pm
And what about shd trolls people on her live morning shoes?
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kashif ajaz Aug 05, 2021 07:24am
When one make his personal or family pictures on social media he should be ready for all types of reactions, otherwise do not share.
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A shah Aug 05, 2021 08:27am
Pakistani men have a thing for little children and it’s not a good thing
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Khalid Aug 05, 2021 08:42am
Stop sharing, no comments, otherwise have patience to read & listen
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Fowez Aug 05, 2021 10:14am
There's nothing wrong with his hair. Personally, I wouldn't be posting pictures of my child in public forums. If I did, I would expect some "crappuccino" comments, it comes with the territory.
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Mirza Aug 05, 2021 10:51am
Sensible parents are not like you. Highly immature at a grown age.
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Zeeshan Aug 05, 2021 11:06am
It was more of criticism on choices exercised by mother than child. It's common practice in house holds that mothers come under severe scrutiny for all the dress and hair cut choices they make for their kids. Well, that's how our society has been operating for hundreds of years. Once she offered a picture on Instagram to draw some praise, she ought to have some thick skin to absorb some criticism as well
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tasneem Aug 05, 2021 12:29pm
@Jigen That's what her show is all about. She needs to create some kind of drama or dig dirt on others to stay relevant.
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Nighat Aug 05, 2021 12:40pm
Dont be stupid enough to share your children's pictures on social media. Why are you putting ur kids at the mercy of the trolls? If you still want to be adamant and do it then ignore the trolls or else reply back to each one until you are satisfied that you have protected your child!
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Qaiser Aug 06, 2021 09:38am
Cyber bullying is a crime but when something is posted on the social media it becomes public property
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Tee Jay Aug 06, 2021 11:46pm
Umm isn’t she the same woman who was asking a minor rape victims parents how they “felt” after the episode and other brutally insensitive and sickening questions. And now she’s upset over “her kid’s” hair comments??
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