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Many cricket legends refused to give me an interview because of my gender, says Zainab Abbas

Many cricket legends refused to give me an interview because of my gender, says Zainab Abbas

"I thought the sporting world would be the torch-bearer of sportsmanship, free of racism, free of prejudice but I was wrong"
10 Dec, 2020

"Sports is generally considered an equaliser of sorts - something that doesn't take gender, class or skin colour into account. Instead, it focuses on your talent, skills, meritocracy, where your performance in the sporting field is more important than anything else."

In her TED Talk, Pakistani sports presenter Zainab Abbas revealed what it's like to be a woman in an industry that is predominated by men. Speaking about breaking barriers, how she made it into the cricketing world and the advice she has for newcomers, the television host opened up about all the prejudice she faced as a woman with a passion for sports.

Speaking up about her own childhood, the journalist remembered how she was bullied choosing to play games such as cricket, as she grew up around five boys.

"Sports became my passion. You cannot imagine how disappointed desi parents would be to find out that their child was skipping an exam to follow an event. That's how passionate I was. The World Cup was on at that particular time and I decided to watch that, and skip my event. I even saved money during the 2009 World T-20 and decided to watch all the games. I was broke by the end, but it was all worth it."

Having graduated from England, Abbas initially thought she wanted to do a corporate job but soon realised she wasn't cut out for it.

"I faced a racist boss, I was the only brown girl in the entire department and he would pick on me on every occasion," she recalled, saying that's when she eventually quit the job, did some soul-searching, looked for her true calling and decided to follow her passion.

"I thought the sporting world would be the torch-bearer of sportsmanship, free of racism, free of prejudices - but I was quite wrong," she divulged, reflecting back on the opportunity she received from a leading news channel.

"There was a man sitting with a smirk on his face, and he asked me condescendingly, 'Reverse swing kya hoti hai?' I had a smile on my face as I knew what he was asking about. I answered politely. He was half impressed so to speak and he decided in those five minutes that he would give me an shot. That's how my journey started."

She said her incident prepared her for never giving up on her dreams, regardless of how many were laughing.

"I had no mentors to look up to. When I entered the field, people made fun of me because they believed women should not be talking about sports, shouldn't be playing sports; she has no business there."

Because she had no formal training, Abbas faced many challenges both professionally and personally.

"I am deaf from my left ear," she recalled, "And while doing a show, your ears keep you facilitated. I had my earpiece in one ear listening to the director, and supposedly your other ear is there to listen to your guests; I realised it was about multi-tasking and there was no room for any errors on live TV. You get exposed very easily."

"I broke down that day, and I still remember calling my mother and telling her I don't think I can do this job because I have this issue. But I continued to train, master my skills and somewhat learnt how to lip-read. What helped me was my knowledge and research about the subject; everything else was improvisation."

Zainab said the initial reaction she received was mixed. While they acknowledged she knew what she was talking about, many envied her.

"I had fellow journalists alleging that I was imitating their content and I soon learnt how to develop a thick skin. I realised I needed to be even more focused and ambitious to reach where I wanted."

"There was also a time many cricket legends refuse to give me an interview because of my gender," she remembered. "That has happened. I was heartbroken because as a child these were the heroes I looked up to. After a couple of years, when I had cemented my place in the industry, those same two gentleman came forward to give me an interview. That was the irony."

Abbas said the world just wasn't prepared to watch a woman taking a lead in her field that is usually guarded by men. "Remember: never let the critics bother you or allow people to get under your skin," she advised her followers.

"Finally in 2019, I was picked by the International Cricket Council to represent Pakistan at the World Cup. That was the peak of my career because nobody from Pakistan had reached that level, certainly not a woman."

Comments

Abdali Dec 10, 2020 02:13pm
Who are these people?
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Human Dec 10, 2020 02:17pm
They refuse not due to your gender but your mischief!
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Tejinderpal Singh Dec 10, 2020 02:35pm
I have seen a few of her interviews and found her quite competent with an endearing quality. A bit pretentious but so are few other presenters of both genders. Good luck.
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Citizen Dec 10, 2020 02:58pm
But many more than refused are willing to be interviewed
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Kashif Dec 10, 2020 03:06pm
Attention seeker.
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Salman Dec 10, 2020 03:09pm
Pakistani cricketers normally shy off from interviews because of language (English) barrier not that a good looking chick is standing in front of them.
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Adnan Mazher Khan Dec 10, 2020 03:14pm
It is not based on gender basis only. Legends feel uncomfortable because of your poor cricketing knowledge and intentional effort to make others believe your ideas only.
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Omair Dec 10, 2020 04:06pm
It's pretty amazing how quickly men get offended when I woman speaks up. As if this country is a shining example of gender equality!
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BAXAR Dec 10, 2020 04:20pm
Lucky you!!
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Sam Shinde Dec 10, 2020 04:50pm
Not because of your gender, but becoz they cannot answer in English. Don’t worry.
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Analyst Dec 10, 2020 05:30pm
I don't believe that. Why would any male sportsman refuse to give interview to female anchor?
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M.S Dec 10, 2020 06:01pm
BRAVO!!
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Yawar Dec 10, 2020 06:17pm
It should be the other way around
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Moeed Hassan Dec 10, 2020 06:32pm
I'm very sorry for all the hardships you had to face. But we love your shows. Your cricketing knowledge and competency is second ti none. More power to you zainab
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Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad Dec 10, 2020 06:39pm
Gender is a big issue not only in South Asia but all over the world.
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Abdul Dec 10, 2020 06:47pm
@Human how do you know?
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Realist Dec 10, 2020 06:54pm
Spoilt brat who always got whatever she wanted on a platter
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Amin Arab Dec 10, 2020 07:14pm
everything is not because of "gender"
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HashBrown® Dec 10, 2020 07:25pm
@Adnan Mazher Khan "It is not based on gender basis only. Legends feel uncomfortable because of your poor cricketing knowledge and intentional effort to make others believe your ideas only." I can imagine there are a lot of insecure men feeling the burn at the presence of an articulate, well spoken female interviewer, and that makes me so happy. Zainab, keep breaking barriers, and keep upsetting all the angry little boys out there - you're a breath of fresh air.
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Safdar Dec 10, 2020 07:52pm
@Human and the reason for your hate is??
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Safdar Dec 10, 2020 07:53pm
All the power to you Zainab and all the girls aspiring whatever career in Pakistan...
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NK Dec 10, 2020 07:56pm
Well if you have a grasp on a topic why would people ignore you, She knows much about cricket and is at ease always while interviewing, i think she just exaggerated in the midst of the current women right topic that is coming up in discussion time and again,
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ashar Dec 10, 2020 07:57pm
please don't bring gender into this. I am sure there are plenty of reasons about your knowledge of Cricket and other sports that you can blame
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HA Dec 10, 2020 07:58pm
Just listen to other interviewer and hopefully penny will drop! You need to go back to basics and improve your self! Cannot listen to you for more than 3 seconds!
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Saeeds Dec 10, 2020 07:59pm
She sound like with victim mentality. White boss and ignored by players because of gender. Many famous people don’t give interviews to men also, I wonder what there excuse.
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SSA Dec 10, 2020 09:21pm
Gender bias is a global issue, but Pakistani men are particularly hypocritical due to dysfunctional upbringing in semi-educated homes where boys are favoured over girls even in food and dress. We don't need hi-ways and buildings to show our progress, but what we need is education, awareness, basic manners and above all ethics and morals, otherwise we will be going around in circles even after another hundred years.
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AZAM AKBAR Dec 10, 2020 09:44pm
Educated and talented lady.
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Sanity 101 Dec 10, 2020 10:01pm
not because of your gender, but your knowledge of cricket. Switch on YouTube and see self made interviewing girls taking interviews boldly and men complying
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Zartaj Gul Dec 10, 2020 10:45pm
@HashBrown® She is definitely now knowledgeable
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outerwings Dec 10, 2020 11:19pm
Way to play the Gender Card
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U Dec 10, 2020 11:42pm
I don't see cricket legends giving interviews to any male newbies either.
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N_Saq Dec 11, 2020 12:18am
Sad but women in the West went through the same and somewhat still goes through same experiences. Remember nothing comes easy in life, if you want something then you have to fight for it because no one will ever just hand it to you. Pakistan is no different, instead it is the worst if you are a women.
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Humayun Dec 11, 2020 01:49am
Zainab your are a brave soul and soon they will feel privileged to be interviewed by a passionate professional like you. Keep it up
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Hadi Dec 11, 2020 06:34am
She is a true super star presenter in Pakistan, her cricketing knowledge and incisive comments and analysis has helped propel her to where she is now.
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Thunderbird Dec 11, 2020 07:38am
As cricket fans we don't mind the gender of commentators however boring ones are disliked .
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Noel Dec 11, 2020 08:19am
Didn’t expect players to be conservative fanatics. What has happened to Pakistan!
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Mike Dec 11, 2020 09:25am
Good Luck! Please take over Rameez Raja's Job!
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Saad Malik Dec 11, 2020 11:53am
@HashBrown® Thank you for this reply, couldn't have said it better myself. Keep going Zainab, so proud of you!
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Nadim Dec 11, 2020 12:22pm
You are doing a great job and an inspiration for Pakistani women.
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Zahid Latif Dec 11, 2020 01:41pm
Celebrities refuse to give interviews to me as well.. Welcome aboard Zainab.
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Kash Dec 11, 2020 01:47pm
Yes, take Rameez's job. He is the worst commentator going. Mind you I thought the commentary team for this year's psl was top notch. Maybe bring in David 'Bumble' Lloyd for next season. Cork and Butcher were amazing additions.
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Alexa Dec 11, 2020 03:15pm
@Human what do you mean?
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Majnu Dec 11, 2020 11:02pm
I know for sure that one of the 2 cricketers who refused is Afridi. Not sure who might be another, most likely Akhtar or some other village mindset cricketer.
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AinOther Dec 12, 2020 12:44am
You are a champion zainab, don't stop.
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Ali S Dec 12, 2020 06:06am
Her complaints about gender discrimination would make more sense if her father hasn't been a professional cricketer. Beneficiaries of nepotism complaining about not being allowed to succeed on their own merit is something Pakistan excels at.
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Murtaza Dec 12, 2020 01:14pm
Reminds me of the male chef whose food nobody tasted because of his gender. Turned out he had to no talent.
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parveez shafi Dec 13, 2020 02:32am
Well done Don't let anyone tell you that you can't do something because of your gender. Only ways for women to be up there with the rest. As long as you do it with respect and dignity.
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