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Depression should not be considered a character flaw, says Deepika Padukone

Depression should not be considered a character flaw, says Deepika Padukone

In her op-ed, the Bollywood celeb shed light on untreated depression and mental health issues prominent in today's youth
10 Oct, 2017

If there's one mainstream actor in recent times who has vigorously advocated for mental health awareness, it has to be 31-year-old Deepika Padukone.

Deepika spoke about her struggle with depression and related illnesses (anxiety et. al) in 2015 after the success of Happy New Year, one of the highest-grossing Bollywood films ever made.

She launched a foundation called Live Love Laugh to raise awareness and bring the discussion on mental health ─ a taboo topic in South Asia ─ out in the open.

Read more: Why Deepika's fearless disclosure is important for South Asia

Today marks two years since the launch of Live Love Laugh, and the actor wrote a sound, heartwarming piece in Hindustan Times voicing the struggles the youth today faces.

If you or anyone you know is experiencing any of the above symptoms for two weeks or more, seeking professional help is highly recommended

"Did you know that suicide is the leading cause for death among India’s youth, with suicide rates being among the highest in the world?" she alarms, adding most people in the country aren't even aware they are experiencing depression.

"Even if somebody realises that they are depressed, most do not seek help, and suffer in silence due to stigma," Deepika says. There is shame in suffering from depression and it shouldn't be considered a character flaw, she adds.

"Back in 2014, when I was in pain, suffering alone, and breaking down repeatedly, I didn’t know I was depressed," she narrates her experience. "I was going about my day, posing for cameras, getting interviewed and signing autographs."

"But what nobody saw was that I didn’t feel like myself, I felt ‘different’ somehow," she added.

"My breathing was irregular and shallow, my stomach was in knots, getting out of bed was a struggle and I would break down for no reason," Padukone said. "All I wanted to do was to curl up and stay in bed."

Padukone quoted a 2016 study published in the Asian Journal of Psychiatry, which revealed that 53.2% university students struggled with depression. She explained some of the most common symptoms of depression include a pervasive low mood, a lack of interest, low energy, or restlessness, decreased or increased appetite, oversleeping or insomnia, impaired memory, lowered self-confidence, and thoughts of death and suicide.

Depression's extreme manifestation, however, is suicide, she alarmed.

Luckily for the actress, she said, her mother realised what she was observing in her daughter was more than sadness and got her the expert help she needed.

"If you or anyone you know is experiencing any of the above symptoms for two weeks or more, seeking professional help is highly recommended," the advocate points out.

"We are in this together," she says, ending her letter with words of encouragement from comedian Stephen Fry that there is hope and it will be sunny one day.

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Khuram Nisar Oct 10, 2017 05:09pm
Brave lady.
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Alanore Oct 10, 2017 05:38pm
She should be greatful movie like Happy New Year became a big hit, instead she was depressed. Very strange. My be she was depressed after her flop hollywood movie.
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Ali Arif Oct 10, 2017 07:45pm
Deepika Padukone doesn't suggest any remedy for poverty and the religious repression that are main reasons behind depression.It appears to be snobbish to talk of depression without addressing these maladies.
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ahamed Oct 10, 2017 08:40pm
Deepika is one brave human being. I admire her courage and urge everyone to help those with mental illnesses which hit people in many different ways. Mental illness is grave and deserves attention. God help in this endeavor to attack mental illness.
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Imajes Oct 10, 2017 09:04pm
The most common disorders in woman like Deepeka are OCD ( Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) and some others have Bi- polar personality. Such disorders develop because of over work,over thinking less sleep. The best remedy is go for a rest, sleep well, and pray salat if you are Muslim,or perform a devoted Puja if you are Hindu, or any other religion perform your own way. You will feel better.
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MAHIR Oct 10, 2017 09:40pm
In Pakistan there are only 8 psychiatric, Hundred thousands people in parachenar kurram agency are suffered from depression No Doctor available to treat them
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Ahad Oct 11, 2017 09:32am
@Alanore There are many causes of depression. It doesn't mean she's being ungrateful. I suffer from depression too and it sucks so bad. There are many happy moments and people hate on me cause they think I'm an ingrate. I just hope that you at least try to understand people like us. And no I'm pretty sure Hollywood is not the reason for that.
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No mans land Oct 11, 2017 09:39am
@Ali Arif not at all and i am telling you from my personal experience no matter you are poor or rich depression can caught any body and in extreme situation its feel that in the pool of mud you are traped and no matter how hard someone try to came out of that pool , harder you try deeper you sink in that mud . It seems that you are chained and your thought are hostage . will power and fighter sprit help in that matter . For further information please visit thelivelovelaughfoundation.org/en/
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Ahad Oct 11, 2017 10:05am
@Ali Arif There are many other causes to depression too. Don't be quick to assume if someone is rich and successful, then they would be immune to depression.
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Alanore Oct 11, 2017 02:58pm
@Ahad No its just a state of mind, people can be unthankful. If you compare to what you have with what you want or dont have you wont have such problems. I have been there i know.
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Sahil Oct 11, 2017 06:43pm
@Alanore depression can happen for any reason - love problems, family problems, marital troubles, abuse, childlessness, financial trouble etc. So do not judge people on their illness.
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Alanore Oct 12, 2017 02:55pm
@Sahil But you can avoid all these minor issues .If you cant face these minor issues how will to tackel major problems. Thats what i did, because problems will keep coming they will never finish.
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Neutral Oct 14, 2017 03:55pm
@Alanore If one can't empathise, its better to stay quiet rather than sit in judgement about something one doesn't understand. Actually depression is aggravated by unempathetic snobs.
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neemhakeem Oct 16, 2017 11:35am
@Ali Arif and you are no expert to belittle mental illnesses. it has nothing to do with worldly success or failure. a very successful person can be depressed.
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neemhakeem Oct 16, 2017 11:38am
@Ahad Agreed people in our society will tell you it's lack of iman, if you believe in god then you wont be depressed. and that you should look at all the blessings and not be ungrateful. these kind of words are exactly what should NOT be said to a depressed person. they cannot snap out of it.
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