If you’re in a really messy relationship, break up: Sonam Kapoor

Looks like Sonam has turned into a love guru — the actor will be ''spilling the beans about her breakup'' on Sept 18

Updated 15 Sep, 2015

If Sonam Kapoor’s new video with Hrithik Roshan ‘Dheere Dheere’ couldn’t bring her into the limelight, her latest ‘advice’ vid will definitely do the trick.

Speaking about how the media never gives coverage to the end of her relationships, Sonam, who calls herself a full-time fashionista and part-time actor, tells her fans about the reality of her breakups.

She says: “Breakups are so liberating. My first breakups were easy because we were young, stupid and immature. But after the breakup, [he] would make a thousand promises, do a hundred dramas... ‘I am new and improved!'... 'Give me a shot?' But, that's rubbish! It’s all the same.”

Her final piece of advice is: “If you’re in a really messy relationship, breakup!” Just do it, she says!

That’s not all. Sonam has some more to say on the matter, but we'll have to wait for September 18 to hear it. Let's see if people will take this Khoobsurat lady's relationship advice seriously.

Comments

Zaeem Sep 15, 2015 06:10pm

Best Advice Ever,,,,!!!

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Another Indian Sep 15, 2015 07:49pm

Wow.. that's so deep. She should consider writing a book on these precious words of wisdom.

KN Sep 15, 2015 08:13pm

When women in the subcontinent feel they are not dependent on a man for life...that is a wonderful thing to happen While I appreciate the willingness of the couples from Asia to be not self centered and make small compromises to keep relationships strong. it should not be a shackle on women if they are afraid of saving themselves because they are worried what the society will say.

Arslan Rafique Sep 15, 2015 09:01pm

With whom she has broke up?

W. G. Sheikh Sep 15, 2015 10:00pm

Define messy; your definition of 'messy' may be, in someone else eyes, just an annoyance. In any healthy relationship, ability to accommodate, give and take, empathy, and deferring of gratification, are all enviable attributes. Yes, granted that your 'messy' means 'abusive' or ' not loyal' or extremely immature (emotionally and financially dependent) then here I agree with your narrative.

al Sep 16, 2015 12:30am

Every girl must ask herself this question : Can I really live without a man ? If yes, stay single !

Guide me Sep 16, 2015 01:46am

@Another Indian ; Do agree, her wisdom brought tears to my eyes too!

Zak Sep 16, 2015 02:26am

@W. G. Sheikh Probably in her case, messy means when her boyfriend isn't able to tolerate her tantrums......

W. G. Sheikh Sep 16, 2015 03:05am

Any deep relationship (love) needs effort and hard work each passing day. Either party cannot take it for granted. It is an ongoing interplay between deposits and withdrawals. Always hope that the deposits stay ahead of the withdrawals. It is like an ocean; there will be waves, up and down on the surface, but deep underneath, it would be calmness and serenity and mutual trust and unsaid care.

Ednan Sep 16, 2015 05:51am

Good one.

bittertruth Sep 16, 2015 07:24am

Umm, some of us would rather try and talk about our relationship issues to try and solve it. Please keep your advise to yourself.

aslam shaikh Sep 16, 2015 08:40am

I am sure you have had a lot of experience so people should listen to you

Pai Jaan Sep 16, 2015 09:38am

Ur wise words convinced me to break up with Megan Fox. So over her!

mustafa Sep 16, 2015 01:30pm

is she giving undercover advice to Fawad :)