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Mariyam Nafees is uncomfortable with people leaving their kids with male nannies

Mariyam Nafees is uncomfortable with people leaving their kids with male nannies

The actor cautioned parents about the threat of sexual abuse and asked them to switch to female nannies instead.
04 Sep, 2025

Actor Mariyam Nafees doesn’t want people to leave their children with male nannies. In a video posted to YouTube on Wednesday, she said she and her husband had taken their son Eesa to get vaccinated recently when they spotted two little girls with male nannies.

Saying this made both of them uncomfortable, Nafees questioned how any parent could trust their child in the care of a man. She quoted a 2023 report by Al Jazeera saying a child was sexually abused “every other hour” in Pakistan. The actor said the reality was worse than the statistics, owing to underreporting and families sweeping such incidents under the rug.

Nafees said she and her husband were disturbed by how anyone could leave a male nanny in charge of their kids, let alone their daughters. She urged all parents who can to please switch to female caretakers for their children’s safety.

A report issued in May said 1,828 cases of sexual abuse against children were reported in 2024 of a total 3,364 cases of child abuse in the country. Amongst the abuse victims, 1,791 — or roughly 53 per cent — were girls and 1,573 were boys.

Parents need to keep a vigilant eye on who interacts with their children, as perpetrators of abuse against children are often people with close access to their victims. While this does include caregivers, it also includes family members, teachers, sports coaches, and all other adults — and even older children — kids may come into contact with.

Comments

MOK Sep 04, 2025 05:58pm
Who is she? Why is she considered important enough that her baseless and opinionistic view is published by one of the leading dailies of the country? COme on guys! you can do better than this!
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Laila Sep 04, 2025 06:00pm
I can understand her concern. In Pakistan with the rampant sexual abuse of male children across this nation, I would trust a child with a male. Not even an extended relative. However outside Pakistan I would. There have been cases internationally with females abusing children. Caught on nanny cams. So nuance is needed depending on the circumstances.
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Sam Sep 04, 2025 06:21pm
Female nannies can steal your husbands.
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Tahmad Sep 04, 2025 06:22pm
She is right, we cannot trust on men’s as Nani’s to your new born babies upto the age five to 10 years babies boys and girls. Always women’s Nannies are safer and trustworthy.
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M. Saeed Sep 04, 2025 06:31pm
It is very pertinent observation of the actor. I also recently observed a male teacher in the day care center in Islamabad, training under 4 years old children of both genders, giving them exercises. It was highly inappropriate and authorities need to address the issue, if they happen to see and read this.
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Mahmood Sep 04, 2025 07:25pm
I'm allergic to stupid, irrelevant, mediocrity of what grabs the headlines these days.\ But hey, does anyone care!??
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NYS Sep 04, 2025 10:11pm
Maryam raised right point to let their babies safe ..
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JJ Sep 05, 2025 01:48am
WMD - weapon of men destruction :)
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mlk Sep 05, 2025 02:31am
Very sad
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Vin Sep 05, 2025 05:54am
Gender discrimination. Male nannies are better role model for kids.
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Ayesha Sep 05, 2025 11:56am
Yes every male is somehow a dracula while females are angels .no idea where these thinking's and logics come from .a person is judged by his/her deeds, not by gender age religion or race
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Ayesha Sep 05, 2025 11:57am
@laila how you have cleverly tried to portray pakistani females as mazloom .we have fair share of evil in our gender
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Aj Sep 05, 2025 11:58am
these Hippocrates tried to be smart and famous by using these social elements but they lack the info and research. someone tell this hippo that female nannies are also found abusing small kids here in this society, needles to mention here how and when.........so complete your home work first then show up in the media so nobody doubt on your fairness and performance..... pathetic ACTOR..... also know that these DAWN people shall never post this like always, apparently they post anything below the standard
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Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad Sep 05, 2025 12:40pm
Safety and security of kids these days is a big issue.
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Laila Sep 05, 2025 01:03pm
@Sam Then such a husband is not worthy of being called a husband and should be cut loose asap. There is something called self-control and fidelity and yes men have these abilities too.
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Laila Sep 05, 2025 01:05pm
@Mok She is an actress. This is Images the culture and entertainment section at Dawn. Hence celebrity news and opinions are part hereof. She isn't entirely wrong. It's an important talk to have especially in Pakistan where child abuse is rampant.
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Queen Sep 05, 2025 02:34pm
"Saying this" or "seeing this?"
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ST Sep 05, 2025 03:50pm
Best is to stay with your children until school going age. Donot trust anyone other then yourself. Period.
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Laila Sep 05, 2025 04:42pm
That tiny little foot and even tinier little toes..... adorable!!
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Reality Sep 05, 2025 04:51pm
There is nothing wrong in what she said. Many incidents worldwide are proofs.
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