Images

A fat-shaming joke in Main Manto Nahi Hoon, a show written by Khalilur Rehman Qamar? Shocking

A fat-shaming joke in Main Manto Nahi Hoon, a show written by Khalilur Rehman Qamar? Shocking

It is actually shocking, however, that the dialogue was delivered by Sajal Aly to Humayun Saeed, actors whom many hold to a higher standard.
28 Jul, 2025

For a show that boasts a big-name cast, a prime-time slot, and the branding of a national television network, Main Manto Nahi Hoon has done little to raise the bar for how women are spoken about on screen. In fact, this week’s episode took things several steps back — quite literally fat-shaming a character who doesn’t even exist.

The scene in question unfolds in a university classroom, where Humayun Saeed’s character, a professor named Manto, is teaching a class on the theory of motivation. Sajal Aly’s character Mehmal, playing a flirtatious and boundary-pushing student, interrupts to ask whether he’s married — a wildly inappropriate question in a professional academic setting.

When Manto deflects, Mehmal jokes she assumed he must be married “with a bunch of kids and a fat wife.” Visibly uncomfortable, he asks her how she assumes he would have a fat wife. Doubling down, she replies, “The lack of motivation on your face means your wife must be fat.” The class bursts into laughter. The script calls it humour, but audiences are calling it a disgrace.

In a country already steeped in unrealistic beauty standards, reinforced over decades through television, cinema and advertising, scenes like this only serve to perpetuate damaging stereotypes.

Pakistani dramas have long peddled body-shaming jokes as lazy humour. But in 2025, when there is growing awareness about body diversity and mental health, viewers expect more, especially from A-list actors like Aly and Saeed.

Online, the backlash has been swift and scathing. Many viewers are asking how such dialogues even made it past a writer’s desk, let alone into Aly’s mouth — an actor often celebrated for being “selective” about her roles. But others point out that this is par for the course when Khalilur Rehman Qamar is the one writing the script.

Many are also pointing out the deeper problem with romanticising a student-teacher dynamic, especially in light of increasing reports of harassment in academic spaces.

The show’s tone-deaf approach has also sparked criticism beyond the classroom scene. Fans called out Aly for “face shaming” after she allegedly reposted a reel from a fan account that labelled an average-looking male character from the same drama “ugly.”

While many fans have previously defended Aly as someone who gravitates toward “strong female roles,” this project has left even her fans disappointed. “I’m sorry,” wrote one, “but seeing THE Sajal Aly utter such under-standard dialogues is enough proof this industry is in shambles in terms of writing.”

The criticism hasn’t just been directed at Aly. Saeed, too, has come under fire for repeatedly lending his credibility to problematic scripts. But in this case, it’s Qamar — a writer with a long and controversial track record of misogyny both in what he says and writes — who is facing the harshest scrutiny.

That he continues to be handed big-budget dramas and given airtime on national TV, despite years of misogynistic storytelling and public outbursts, says more about the industry than it does about him.

At a time when more women are demanding respectful, nuanced representation on screen, and when younger audiences are challenging harmful tropes, Main Manto Nahi Hoon feels like a giant step backwards.

And while the backlash may not immediately change the course of the show, it has started an important conversation about what viewers will, and should, no longer accept in the name of “entertainment.”

Comments

Laila Jul 28, 2025 05:48pm
Just stop giving him a platform. His hypocrisy, ignorance, misogyny and patriarchy are a matter of public record, irrespective of the nations and his fans denial. Give a platform to decent real men. Men who protect and honor females. Real men are those, who are not threatened by females, their rights, attire, empowerment, agency, physical and mental autonomy, education, consent, visibility and mobility. While not common in Pakistan, real men do exist. I would rather read about them. Even if they are not famous. They are the unsung heroes we should celebrate and uplift. Not KRQ.
Recommend
Ishrat Hyatt Jul 28, 2025 06:01pm
Shame and double shame on Sajal Ali - used to like her not any more.
Recommend
Ishrat Hyatt Jul 28, 2025 06:03pm
Its all about the money actually for which most people will do anything for
Recommend
Reality Jul 28, 2025 06:14pm
Not bcos of this drama but I find her overrated there are better actresses than her .she only has her doe eyes long hair n cutiepie dialogues in.most dramas
Recommend
Umair Jul 28, 2025 06:29pm
Relax, it is just fictional character raise in an environment where they dont care what they say or do. The writers decided what they want to write and the committee that monitors good bad and ugly allowed it. You have many choices, one of them is to turn of the TV and dont watch second to take it up to the committee and demand them to only allow what public likes. I guarantee you this if you go the second route most of you fashion shows quite vulgar in my opinion would be gone. Pick your fight wisely. In other words sirif moon ki firing say kuch nahi hoga, siwai uskay jo ho raha hai.
Recommend
JAMIL SOOMRO Jul 28, 2025 06:41pm
Being a well known misogynist in Pakistan, Khalilur Rehman Qamar has quite cunningly succeeded in introducing the bombshell remark of "fat wife". Too late, though subtle humour but the damage has been done.? The anger of women is justified.
Recommend
M. Saeed Jul 28, 2025 07:07pm
So, it is a K.R. Qamar after all! Bad habits never go easy!
Recommend
js Jul 28, 2025 07:54pm
Besides body shaming, such dramas also do harm to women's access to work and education. When dramas portray universities and offices as places for women to only flirt and find husbands (including having inappropriate relationships) parents who have not experienced uni or office life firsthand are reluctant to allow their girls to go there. I have personally met at least one such mother who was reluctant to send her daughter to university because she didn't want her to fall in love with boys like they do in dramas. Can we show women actually studying, working and succeeding in such places, instead of just using them as settings for inappropriate romance?
Recommend
IS Jul 28, 2025 08:19pm
Dramas do not have to always show the politically correct or "should be" picture but is also a depiction of sad and unfortunate realities. It is an unfortunate fact that people do make these kinds of anologies in our society and if its depiction in a drama attracts criticism and denunciation, well then the drama has achieved its objective in showcasing/ demonstrating that such analogies appear highly inappropriate.
Recommend
Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad Jul 28, 2025 09:24pm
Tip of the iceberg.
Recommend
Kahkashan Jul 28, 2025 09:42pm
you are an anti KRK obviously
Recommend
mumtaz Jul 28, 2025 10:40pm
That’s a degeneration of our society that Khalil ur Rehman is allowed to write dramas-
Recommend
MantoDaBhai Jul 28, 2025 11:27pm
shutup and get out of this feminisme and other holes, let people have freedon of speech. I have never seen a society work where there is criticism on everything.
Recommend
Tim Jul 29, 2025 12:12am
While I am no KRQ supporter, we should decide once and for all that must every script be approved by the thought police? Who decides what shoudl and should not do? People call each other derogatory names all the time - so must we completely paint them as politically correct angels? Come ON.
Recommend
SJ Jul 29, 2025 12:35am
Snowflake fans. Get over it. It is just a drama.
Recommend
DR Ayoub Jul 29, 2025 01:15am
The Reasonable People must uphold scripts of Responsible Writers, not dirt cheap writers. We must encourage scripts which do not suggest any hurl or attempt on women folk
Recommend
Farhan Jul 29, 2025 08:08am
How come this is a biggest issue in the country right now? Floods wreaking havoc and our people are dying and people are casually and aggressively tweeting making this a ' prime ' issue. And these are the young educated urbanites of our country who knows nothing about how to make things better in a society instead of doing third class sarcasm and throwing insults even at their own country.
Recommend
Robin Mitha Jul 29, 2025 08:59am
The drama overall comes across as a a beautiful piece of work . As far as fat shaming goes, picking on a one line dialogue is a bit unfair. If there is repeated use of a negative slur then maybe its a point to consider. The writer has done a beautiful job so far, after a long time we are seeing a well written and well made drama
Recommend
Tasneem Jul 29, 2025 09:27am
It's vital to distinguish problematic intent from character-driven storytelling, even though the backlash against "Main Manto Nahi Hoon" over a classroom scene involving joke that touches on body image may be understandable in a culture of growing sensitivity. Criticizing the entire program because of a single moment undermines artistic freedom, context, and the assumption that all on-screen speech supports the stated opinions. First of all, the scene in question, in which Mehmal makes fun of Manto for perhaps having a " fat wife," is not intended to be an intellectual or moral representation of reality. Instead, it highlights facets of her personality: a self-assured, imperfect, boundary-pushing girl. She is not a role model. Second, not every fictional character or dialogue needs to model ideal behavior. Characters on television become one-dimensional and stories get sanitized if they are only permitted to say the "correct" things. Ironically, calling out Mehmal’s dialogue as offensive might be proof that the scene is doing its job, prompting a reaction, exposing biases, and creating space for dialogue. Additionally, critics overlook the fact that in " Main Manto Nahi Hoon is not using this as a line for applause. Additionally, critics overlook the fact that in " Main Manto Nahi Hoon" is not using this as a line for applause. The professor, Manto, is visibly uncomfortable, which suggests that the show is at least somewhat conscious of the inappropriate behavior. Although the laughter in the classroom may be painful, it is a reflection of the reality in South Asians institutions, where fatphobia is frequently accepted. It would be dishonest to ignore that rather than to portray it. Lastly, it overlooks the nature of acting to insist that performers like Sajal Aly is held responsible for every word she says. She is not giving a TED Talk; rather, she is playing a role in a drama. It would be a fundamental misunderstanding of the actor's role to hold her personally accountable for every joke her character makes.
Recommend
Zohair Siddiqui Jul 29, 2025 02:36pm
What the viewers have pointed out is realistic. No one, either the writer or actor, should be allowed to let such negative remarks (imaginary fat wife) be on air. The occasion when such comment is made, i.e. in the classroom of a technical subject, is deplorable. There is a complex problem with this so-called top rated writer KRQ, who falsely believes that what he writes is a masterpiece. He has a personal background tarnished with an unpleasant incident some time back. He should have learnt a lesson to remain most careful in future. But, he seems to be of the type "Kuttei ki dum bara saal bhi pipe mei rahe terih ki terih hi rahe gee". The actors are also mostly a senseless specie, who never cares about the public sentiment. Sajal Ali after her separation, from a son of the character performing role of her father in this drama, should have been more careful about delivering such sarcastic and antifeminist remarks. However, what good can be done in this society where "Aawei ka Aawa hi Bigra huwa hai!"
Recommend
Aisha Bashir Jul 29, 2025 03:35pm
STOP MAKING STUPID PEOPLE FAMOUS!!!! And stop giving them space in place of power to influence immature minds!!!!
Recommend
Aisha Bashir Jul 29, 2025 03:36pm
Money cant buy you class, at the same time it can make you forget any SOCIETAL ethics and morals.
Recommend
Laila Jul 29, 2025 04:50pm
@Farhan Dramas and drama writers are not immune to criticism. It's public content and viewers will have views. Good and bad. As for Images, while there is plenty they don't know about, they are only responsible for the Culture and Arts section (Images). If you want serious articles on current affairs and politics, you can go to the bottom and click on DAWN. But you can not stop Images from writing articles on dramas. Kindly stop misrepresenting every criticism as insult on country. A married man sitting shirtless, smoking and kissing with a young female not his wife, at 4 am insisting he did nothing wrong and will continue to meet females aloke at night is the real insult to your country.
Recommend
Laila Jul 29, 2025 05:20pm
@JS Absolutely LOVED your comment on the misrepresentation of public spaces for females such as colleges, unis, offices etc. I won't name him, but there is literate male, who lived abroad, has a podcast, hailing himself as some sort of a Messiah, opined that education should be restricted for girls, as that would lead to rebellion (read: awareness, knowledge, rights and options) and destroy the family system. All the while his own children are being educated abroad. Nobody challenged this despite thousands of people listening to him. Dramas are the same. They want to limit and restrict the roles of females, deprive them of knowledge, rights and opportunities, making them wholly dependent on males. The dependency must apply even if the male is oppressive, evil, sadistic etc. An excellent idea way to do this is to create irrational fear. First it was female initiated divorce, and now it is females in public spaces. Educational institutions is particularly interesting, as education leads to knowledge of and exercising ones rights (for females this is seen as rebellion against patriarchy/family/in-laws/husbands control). So that's why females are shown as flirtatious, fashion models, in makeup, romancing males to instill in parents the opposition to allowing girls to study. Many females work out of necessity. By creating stigma for girls working in offices with harassment or just romance, most people won't allow females to work there. Ironically they don't show the same threats towards females when they work as domestic staff (common) when they gave rampant abuse, violence and sexual abuse. Yet we have children working in that field with several news of murders. We also don't make dramas about the dangers of rape facing male children at madrassas even though it's rampant. We don't show how females though financial independence can.leave abusive marriages or make a better life for themselves. It's all very sinister. It's indoctrination. It's oppression. The drama industry when you look at the people who run it, their words, views and work it all makes sense. The awaam has no critical sense or its only reserved for womens groups/feminists/liberals/human rights groups/political opponents, but never for the actual problems.
Recommend
Laila Jul 29, 2025 05:47pm
The fact that Humayun Midlife Crises Saeed has collaborated with, repeatedly hired a misogynist like KRQ, speaks to Saeed himself, his own character, his person, his views on females. The two are also close in private as obvious from interviews, where Saeed is praising KRQ and his works. Though, I can't understand why Sajal Aly would even accept this script. The script is of course no big surprise. After all it was our own drama industry which made a drama called 'Oye Motee' (English: Hey Fatty) with the female protagonist being body shamed.
Recommend
Laila Jul 29, 2025 06:00pm
@Kahkashan Well being anti or disliking somebody is not a crime. Anybody with a basic sense of morality and a shred of human decency will loathe and be disgusted by KRQ and his ilk.
Recommend
Saeed Jul 30, 2025 04:09pm
Money talks! These respectable actors will do anything for money…
Recommend
Safia Khokhar Jul 30, 2025 05:19pm
He thinks he is mocho man can write anything such dumb words .
Recommend