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Cutting my hair short doesn’t make me a bad person: Saheefa Jabbar Khattak

Cutting my hair short doesn’t make me a bad person: Saheefa Jabbar Khattak

The model spoke against the backlash she received for her short hair
Updated 25 Aug, 2017

It's not new to see a celebrity facing backlash from haters over their looks. But that doesn't mean it's okay.

Case in point is model Saheefa Jabbar Khattak, who recently cut her hair short.

Saheefa's haircut looks spunky and bold, making her stand out in the industry. But her standing out is leading to her getting bullied online.

Speaking to Images, Saheefa revealed that she had gone for a shorter haircut before, "but at that time I was in university and I wasn't called out for it in this way. They were a little unsure about it then as well, asking me why I did it, but I guess I was surrounded by better people or people were nicer back then because they wouldn't be so vile."

It was when Saheefa sported this look in recent brand shoots that the haters couldn't handle it. They commented on her looks, saying the haircut looks bad, and went as far as to point fingers at her character and claim she's a bad influence on the society.

We've heard it so many times ─ haters gonna hate. But what about when the hate goes too far? That's when Saheefa decided to fight back.

Said Saheefa, "I saw so many hate comments on my pictures from women, and what would saddened me is that those women had pictures of children on their display picture. These women were claiming I am a bad influence on the youth but I was just wondering about what the children are actually learning when they see their parents being hateful to a stranger on the internet, saying vile and cruel things and getting away with it. These children are learning to judge and say whatever negative thing they want and that it is okay to do so."

Saheefa also went live on her Facebook to call out the hate and point out how such bullying reflects more on the haters and less on herself.

Said Saheefa in her video, "Cutting my hair doesn’t make me a bad person, a bad Muslim, or make me unsuitable for marriage."

Watch the video here.

Saheefa told us that the issue with her haircut is deep-rooted in a patriarchal mindset.

"This haircut is not the issue. For women, hair isn't the only issue. We are facing gender inequality and stereotyping. The issue is also about illiteracy."

She added, "In my defence, I spoke about how I have the right to my views and people took it that wrong way, they started saying I'm bashing the hijab or throwing shade at women who choose to marry early when I didn't do that at all. I just wanted to clarify that it is a person's choice. I may not be in hijab but I speak against hijab bans in other countries because it is a person's choice. And this haircut is my choice and I am not forcing anyone to do the same!"

For Saheefa, speaking out in such a way was not easy. In a society where a voice is easily silenced, where those who do not conform are at risk, Saheefa took a stand. She revealed even her family was concerned about her doing so.

"My father raised me to be a strong, independent woman but with the state of the society even he was afraid of my fighting such haters. He was afraid for my safety. He was unsure if I should speak up because what if someone hurts me because of this. And it's weird to me because, in the end, this is all about a haircut!"

She added, "The situation in this country worries me. Even now at the moment, there are people who think it's a stunt. Just a few hopefully, but for them as well I wonder how they couldn't see I wasn't acting or this wasn't planned."

But Saheefa ended up getting a lot of support for her move too. Many appreciated the model for breaking stereotypes with her new look and many from the industry who knew her spoke out against the hate and stood by her decision.

Said Saheefa about the support, "I had no idea that this will go huge. I just went live to say what I wanted to and then I was planning on deleting the post. But then the support came in. I had people calling me, telling me I did the right thing standing up for myself and to not delete the video. They were sharing my video, making statuses; the support had me stunned. I am so grateful for them."

"There were also many who commented on the hateful messages and now those haters have deleted their comments. One of the ladies who had called me masculine and a bad influence on the younger people deleted her comment, and inboxed me and apologised. I'm glad the support came from all the places."

Saheefa has been in the modelling industry for around two years. She has been the face of many brands, on shoots and ramp. For her, to have such a huge scandal over a mere haircut shows how our society cannot handle anyone who won't conform, especially women. It's about time we appreciate individualism, and let a person choose what they want to do with their life and their hair.

Comments

Nasir Askar Aug 24, 2017 04:33pm
Its her hair, let her do what she want. Buy products not based on the looks of the model but on the strengths of the product
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Alanore Aug 24, 2017 04:35pm
So what if she has short hair? Bushra Ansari, Marina Khan and Abida Parveen and many others had short hairs in the past. Why make a big deal.
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Fiqa Aug 24, 2017 04:37pm
Leave her alone. She looks awesome in her new hairdo. Never worry about hair being cut as they grow back again. See , no damage done. BTW, I would allow my wife to have that kind of hair cut. No issues.
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zebswati Aug 24, 2017 04:55pm
Looks very attractive in short hair!
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Tahir Khan Aug 24, 2017 05:00pm
I think a person should have a choice and a say in what she/he wears or looks like. Personally i think she looks pretty nice.
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Peacenik Aug 24, 2017 05:14pm
She looks good in short hair.
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Haque Aug 24, 2017 05:17pm
She is looking fabulous.
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abu.ashhad Aug 24, 2017 05:20pm
@Fiqa ...allow?
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Chris Roberts Aug 24, 2017 05:31pm
If she feels it makes her look good and she's comfortable with her hair cut short, what is the problem? Personally, I think it suits her. Is there no room for diversity?
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Ali Aug 24, 2017 05:33pm
She looks absolutely stunning !!!
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rafique Aug 24, 2017 05:34pm
It's your life what would you like is important for than others. You look gorgeous.
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hasnain Aug 24, 2017 06:09pm
YOUR HAIR LOOKS GREAT
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Jem Aug 24, 2017 06:59pm
She looks awesome.
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Kahld Baloc Aug 24, 2017 07:00pm
Look good. No issues at all.
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Alexey Aug 24, 2017 07:03pm
People don't know beauty when they see it.
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Kashif abbasi Aug 24, 2017 07:08pm
I think she looks extremely beautiful. MASHALLAH
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mohammad waseem Aug 24, 2017 07:38pm
I think she looks elegant and cute Well done to her
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Mehkan Aug 25, 2017 12:22am
@Fiqa I mean its good to be open minded. But you just proved that your base thinking is that your wife will have to ask you for permission to do things. Which is why you used the word 'allow.' I am quite surprised at your fundamental thinking principles.
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Share Ali Aug 25, 2017 02:14am
Girl; you can tell these guys; who have nothing else to do; but point less gossip; like a bunch of old hags; to GET LOST. You sue look beautiful.
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Mas Aug 25, 2017 02:55am
She is pretty!
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lp singh Aug 25, 2017 06:12am
respected little daughter.do what you want. just see that modesty os the society is not violated.
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fazle rabbi Aug 25, 2017 06:13am
IN Pakistan, never appreciate women, regardless how successful they are.
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LIberal Aug 25, 2017 07:03am
What happened guys, you are worried about the haircut of another person! Where are we leading to? You should be really worried about your current status. You must put effort to make your life better. I guess your life is not smooth.
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MAK Aug 25, 2017 07:13am
how can any one call short hair bad , its only mind's reflection caged or free
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Pakistani Aug 25, 2017 08:10am
Well Pakistani are bunch of hypcroties and this is nothing new as they cannot handle the truth. In my opinion, she is beautiful girl and what does she do her hair is her business and no one else. If you do not like her, do not look at her and you go girl let the jealous burn and you enjoy and be happy
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Me Aug 25, 2017 08:16am
Depends on what your beliefs are.......
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Shu Aug 25, 2017 01:48pm
She looks gorgeous I wish I had the courage to cut my hair short .. Shaeefa you rock !
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Shu Aug 25, 2017 01:49pm
You look gorgeous , I wish I had the courage to cut my hair .. You rock Shafea!
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nasr Aug 25, 2017 07:56pm
Why you are trying to impose fashion from a society where we do not belong? And if we embrace it we may came out good in this world but what will be the state of affairs hereafter????
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ringo Aug 26, 2017 11:52am
awesome!!! good going girl-
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Einstein babar Aug 27, 2017 10:12am
nothing makes a lady a bad person, media is there to defend anything you do
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