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Dear online trolls, Hassan Ali's wife, her clothes and her pictures are none of your business

Dear online trolls, Hassan Ali's wife, her clothes and her pictures are none of your business

Pakistani Twitter rushed to the cricketer's defence, telling naysayers off for slut-shaming his wife.
21 Jun, 2022

Cricketer Hassan Ali posted some great vacation photos with his wife, Samiya, and infant daughter but they have unprecedentedly become a breeding ground for internet trolls taking digs at his wife's clothes and pose — men have officially hit a new low. We've said this before but we're going to have to repeat it — a woman's clothes are no one's business except her own.

On Monday, Ali posted photos with his wife and daughter on a boat in Hunza and instead of appreciating the scenic family photos like normal people, many netizens — mostly men — dropped down in the replies to slut-shame the cricketer's wife, questioning her morals, intentions and character, amongst other things.

From equating Ali's gairat [respect] to his wife's clothes to asking the cricketer to cover his wife, the trolls went all out with their suggestions that no one asked for.

Though there is a large stream of tweets reflecting this disgusting mentality, the other half of Twitter jumped to the family's defence. They called out the internet trolls while reassuring the cricketer that there is nothing wrong here — just the "gutter mentality" of the moral brigade that loves to overstep.

An excellent observation on this user's part.

Take two for the men who didn't spare Esra Bilgic. Unneeded and unnecessary.

Women have legs — surprise, surprise!

Sweetie, your "harassy" "gutter mentality" is showing.

Can PEMRA look into this?

Absolutely.

Ending note: Stop. Objectifying. Women. Just stop talking if the subject matter is none of your business. Someone else's body is not your concern. What they do with it, how they dress it is entirely their choice and you infringing on that choice is a violation of their basic human rights.

Sitting behind a computer and spitting hate may be very easy but it can have long-term repercussions that another person has to take conscious measures to heal from. Be kind and stop being a troll.

Comments

NYS Jun 21, 2022 03:00pm
Netizens spew hates when nothing to say Mind it several people died because of this hatred comment having mental trauma with no reason?? Alive and let other lives
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Ahsan Gul Jun 21, 2022 03:05pm
Are these two somebody? Who is Hassan Ali?
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Faisal Salman Jun 21, 2022 03:18pm
I don't understand why people first post their personal moments on social media and then expect to have the positive remarks only. When someone is opening his/her personal life to public then expect everything and ignore what he/she doesn't like. Preferred way is to keep your personal life personal. Yes, in that case someone has to sacrifice social media following and the limelight.
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Abdullah Jun 21, 2022 03:23pm
With the cukture pti started what do you expect from this nation now.All they can do is criticise others and interfere in there life.
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Syed Hasni Jun 21, 2022 03:25pm
Those are really beautiful pictures, what is wrong with them ?
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Talha Jun 21, 2022 03:25pm
@Ahsan Gul he's the guy whose name made you comment here
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Aysha Khan Jun 21, 2022 03:31pm
Why did he posted them? For public?
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Bunny Jun 21, 2022 03:32pm
she's decently dressed. whats wrong with that . I would like to see more of that pretty Hunza region . we have heard that its the most literate state in entire Pak . Also longitivity is max there .
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Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad Jun 21, 2022 03:45pm
Who took these pictures?
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SAM Jun 21, 2022 03:47pm
Totally agree.
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Anwar Jun 21, 2022 03:50pm
@ Ahsan Gul Hasan Ali is an accomplished international cricket star with over 100 appearances for his country at the age of 27. Who the heck are you? Accomplished anything of note yet in your life? I bet this comment of yours with 3 people recommending it makes it to your personal highlight reel of life. Clap clap.
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Nasir S. Jun 21, 2022 04:17pm
Sadly there is no right or wrong here. If you post your pics on social media be ready for a host of varying comments. A normal person has few friends, these guys have thousands. You cannot expect all to like and be positive in comments.
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Asfand Jun 21, 2022 04:20pm
Why these poeple have to show off and post these pics. Once they post it becomes public material and can and will be commented either good or bad
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Hanna Jun 21, 2022 04:25pm
@Faisal Salman that's a very pathetic excuse for harrassing and bylluing someone online,that's like saying if somebody steps out of their house then everybody has the right to attack them and they can't be held accountable
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someguy Jun 21, 2022 04:38pm
When you decide to make your personal pics public, you must be mature enough to understand that you have now opened them up to public opinion.
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Jay Hind Jun 21, 2022 04:46pm
Couldn’t figure out what exactly is supposed to be wrong with those pictures…
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Farhan Jun 21, 2022 05:15pm
Why to post pictures in public sphere in first place. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and they shared it. Everyone can't be expected to do ooo, awwww, cutie type posts. Yes, they should keep quiet but pics are posted in first place to be commented
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Sana Jun 21, 2022 05:32pm
@Faisal Salman Have you lost your brain somewhere? Why wouldn't someone post about their life on their social media? Don't you know is that how social media works? It's the same as you are commenting on this article, however stupid though. Post a picture doesn't allow anyone to target someone's personal choices. If anyone doesn't like anything, scroll past it. Yours is the same mentality that says women get r*ped because of the clothes they wear. Unlearn your misogyny!!!
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Get Real Jun 21, 2022 05:33pm
What the reason to share your family pictures. There you have it.
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Reality Jun 21, 2022 05:44pm
If some one decide to showcase his wife in public then public has the right to react and comment on what they feel to response. Else don't showcase to public or don't expect the response, Get real
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Reality Jun 21, 2022 05:46pm
@Anwar Ahsan Gul, don't have to show case himself and family and will surely not get any likes or dislikes and even your cheap ranting. You already told your self calling this an achievement .. Grow up!
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Khan Jun 21, 2022 05:54pm
When it’s on social media it’s everyone’s business!
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Ali B Jun 21, 2022 05:57pm
Nothing wrong with anybody's clothing here, what the young lady is wearing is worn by millions across the globe including Pakistan its in fashion these days enjoy your vacation.
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insaafian Jun 21, 2022 06:00pm
are these TLP trolls? I mean she looks perfectly fine to me! do they want her in a burqa posing? the easiest thing is to use women to cover up your own insecure "inadequacies"
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M. Saeed Jun 21, 2022 06:03pm
Have you ever seen any women sitting with straight legs? Almost 95% of women, whether in trouser or burqa, sit anywhere, (even on motor Lesley) with crossed legs, for their own convenience.
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M. Saeed Jun 21, 2022 06:06pm
@Faisal Salman, Sharam lies in the eyes of the beholder. If you do not like a sight, turn your eyes away. First sight is always accidental, while the second sight is intended and sinful.
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Ordinary Jun 21, 2022 06:26pm
@Faisal Salman Exactly - before Internet people used care not to expose their private photos in public. Now every one ready to through their private life open to people on street. Basically I can any one's photo in my bedroom!
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Analyst Jun 21, 2022 06:29pm
If pictures are shared publicly then it's everyone's business.
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Ibrahim S Jun 21, 2022 06:44pm
Those people who have issues with women should move to Afghanistan
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Constantine Jun 21, 2022 06:46pm
@Syed Hasni “Those are really beautiful pictures, what is wrong with them ?”- there is no problem with the pictures, the problem is with the commenting Pakistanis who are watching too much porn and now their brain is cooked.
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Truth be told Jun 21, 2022 06:46pm
@Faisal Salman TOTALLY AGREE.
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Hansoti sh Jun 21, 2022 06:47pm
@Faisal Salman yes, post for PUBLIC, then expect PUBLIC reactions. It is ARROGANCE to expect Idol worship
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Hansoti sh Jun 21, 2022 06:49pm
@Anwar well at least he need or encourage mindless idol worshipping
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Hansoti sh Jun 21, 2022 06:51pm
@Talha his actions not his name
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Babar Jun 21, 2022 06:54pm
When people post, share or open up their lives on social media, they are opening themselves to feedback and comments. Feedback could be positive and healthy, or unfortunately, it could be negative, insulting and or personal. Its difficult to police or prevent people posting abuse, so you have two options, a) don't share your personal, family life on social media, b) share on social media and ignore the trolls!! People can't have it both ways, i.e. they want to share and show off on social media, get free PR, yet at the same time take offence when trolls post abuse or negative comments.
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Navn Jun 21, 2022 07:17pm
@Bunny yeah beautiful mountains
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nk Jun 21, 2022 07:18pm
Their is nothing objectionable in the clothing apart from she looks very much western influenced. Like Sania Mirza she is an Indian too. Sania has worn western dresses too but she did not faced any backlash..
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nk Jun 21, 2022 07:20pm
"Stop. Objectifying. Women". Well this a controversial statement. In today's material world a women have become an object. How many men do you see in advertisement and commercials?
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nk Jun 21, 2022 07:22pm
@Faisal Salman Correct. why do you objectify yourself,
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Raz Khan Jun 21, 2022 07:26pm
Nothing is wrong with her clothes. To trolls, mind your own business and fix your brains.
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Seema Durani Jun 21, 2022 07:36pm
Please don’t complain when you are exposing your private family life in-front of the public. It’s not only a Pakistani mentality but all over the world it is a same pattern. When someone presents their wife and kid infront of strangers then they should be ready and have patience to endure all kinds of comments.
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A1 Jun 21, 2022 07:39pm
They look very nice. They have set a new trend for couples to follow...matching colors.
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Altaf Jun 21, 2022 07:45pm
@Ahsan Gul - Hassan Ali is the person who dropped Wade and gave the World Cup to Australia
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Dam'it Jun 21, 2022 07:53pm
Nice pose btw
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Haha UK Jun 21, 2022 07:58pm
Not a appropriate dress for Pakistani women. As public figure you guys should promote traditional dress with modesty. Taking Chaddar will make you more humble.
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J Jun 21, 2022 08:00pm
@Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad... Why does it matter to you? He has a robot taking pictures. Enough?
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Ed Jun 21, 2022 08:40pm
Pakistanis are extremely narrow minded peoplen
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it's me Jun 21, 2022 08:56pm
Being a Pakistani cricketer and part of Pakistani culture, people expect to see their star representing their culture.
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shubs Jun 21, 2022 09:20pm
These are the same men that make up Imran Khan's political fan base. They think alike.
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ENGR Hamid Shafiq Jun 21, 2022 09:24pm
When you put your personal pictures on social media you should be ready for people reply whether it’s positive or negative
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Douglas Jun 21, 2022 10:03pm
@Altaf giving away World Cup is better
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Douglas Jun 21, 2022 10:04pm
@Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad definitely not you
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Zeeshan Ahmed Jun 21, 2022 11:15pm
Didn't know who he nor his wife were till now, but God bless them. If you don't want people making your personal life their business, stop posting your personal life details to the world on social media.
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AnilSahu Jun 21, 2022 11:23pm
@it what culture you only have indian borrowed culture
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xd Jun 21, 2022 11:49pm
phir bhethne ka tareeqa aya ya nhi?
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ajay Jun 22, 2022 12:39am
@Jay Hind sick and conservative society of pakistan
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skb Jun 22, 2022 01:02am
@Ahsan Gul Even I, out of Pakistan for last 62 years, did not ask such dumb question. He is cricketer you dumb A,
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Allan Jun 22, 2022 01:33am
I can’t understand if someone doesn’t have anything nice to say then just shut the &$** up.
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Allan Jun 22, 2022 01:35am
@Syed Hasni Absolutely nothing wrong with the pictures. A lot wrong with some people who are viewing them.
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Zidan Jun 22, 2022 03:39am
Yes there are you western indoctrinated brownies. You don't go against your own cultural values when you are a public figure. Stop trying to import your ex-colonial master's mindset in this country. They don't even accept you and yet you are so desperate to be like them!
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Nadeem Shah Jun 22, 2022 03:50am
Everyone wants to be the morality police but never police themselves. Leave people alone.... Worst habits in Pakistan.....
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Nadeem Shah Jun 22, 2022 03:50am
@Asfand none of your business.
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Nadeem Shah Jun 22, 2022 03:53am
@Ed especially the Pashtun and the afghanis living here....
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sz Jun 22, 2022 04:47am
1. Nothing wrong with photos (from my pov). 2. However, what others already said, if you post comment/photos on public sites, others have right to post their reaction/comments to it. Ignore/remove the ones you don't like (and Hassan Ali/wife might have done just that, I don't know if he/she responded). 3. Same right that the writer of this article has to then criticize the people/comments that were posted publicly.
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Omveer Singh Jun 22, 2022 04:53am
Where's the hijaab? Islam says hijaab is mandatory.
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White Noise Jun 22, 2022 05:15am
its 2022, not 1922, move on people. I just spent a month in Pakistan after being away for few years and I saw more than this picture.
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Khurram Javed Jun 22, 2022 05:42am
There is nothing wrong with her clothes. Even of there was something wrong (in someone's opinion) then they should just keep it to themselves, it is none of anyone's business to criticize her
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Ibrahim S Jun 22, 2022 06:00am
Those who are jealous of his beautiful wife, please let your wives dress up instead of serving you fresh chappati every time you have dinner at home .
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Sohail Jun 22, 2022 08:12am
liberals express their fashion statements. Mainstream media readily offers services for that. Conservative view point has no place? Perhaps they don’t know sophisticated ways of presenting their views
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Ravi Kumar Emani Jun 22, 2022 08:14am
@Altaf, such things happen very often. sports should be viewed with sportsmanship.
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Salman Jun 22, 2022 08:31am
@Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad I took these pictures
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Anonymouseee Jun 22, 2022 10:26am
Everyone has a right to voice their opinion. The writer should not become a dictator.
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Nisar Jun 22, 2022 10:40am
When you enter the public domains with your personal life ... you will invite opinions ... good and bad. Why does one share personal images and news with the world?? So that they can bee seen and heard by the world! The world will then say things ... everyone will not say what you wish to hear.
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A Ahmed Jun 22, 2022 11:39am
When someone assumes public representation there is always a cost involved, one has to be sensitive to public sentiments, they can have a private life then no one should be allowed to comment on it. It is ridiculous to think that someone gets it both ways. In the US people do a lot in their private life but when they become or aspire to become public figures they have to abide by the rules of the society at large and otherwise get condemned. All those claiming it is her right to wear whatever she wants not anyone else's should also understand she publicized those photos as a representation of a public icon and people have the right to say it is not their representation. Keep your private life away from public then intruders will be ashamed.
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Sach ka rasta Jun 22, 2022 12:46pm
Beautiful pics....what's wrong here?
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Daniel Jun 22, 2022 02:08pm
I really agree with people who say that one should not post any thing personal on social media in Pakistan, pictures ir comments, things other than that, maybe.Carefully, well thought off..probably acceptable to most. By now one should know by heart the mentality of the majority...netizens or citizens..its all the same. Freedom of expression died in Pakistan the day Quaid-e- Azam died.
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Reality Jun 22, 2022 02:46pm
@Ibrahim S seems you get jealous and you take chappati, since you know the detail...so grow up a bit
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FAZ Jun 22, 2022 02:46pm
@Faisal Salman Indeed. Trolls are not common in Pakistan only. Apart from our neighbours, even the US is no exception.
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Ali Vaqar Awan Jun 22, 2022 03:32pm
Why such a sick mind set of society. Clothes is none of the people's business. They can wear whatever they want. Sad to say society falling such a narrow mind set and perspective.
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HashBrown® Jun 22, 2022 04:15pm
@Ahsan Gul "Are these two somebody? Who is Hassan Ali?" He's the guy whose name you read when you decided to click on this article and post a comment, so why are you asking?
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HashBrown® Jun 22, 2022 04:21pm
@AnilSahu "what culture you only have indian borrowed culture" Thank you for clarifying that this backward mindset comes from your country, that makes sense.
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JS Jun 22, 2022 10:40pm
Technically, being rude on the internet is not a crime, so the only way to avoid encountering such rudeness is to not display those moments to the whole world that you would not want them commenting about.
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A simple Pukhtun Jun 22, 2022 10:52pm
Well, I love this couple ♥️
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Ping Jun 23, 2022 05:44am
@Ahsan Gul He dropped THE catch!!!
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Rehana Bounse Jun 23, 2022 08:23am
@Haha UK really. Do you wear traditional clothes & chador for modesty in UK?
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Nadeem Shah Jun 23, 2022 11:43am
This guy is overrated... He doesn't have the temperament nor the ability to be a world class cricketer, proved he could not play under pressure and dropped the catch.
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Here-we-go-again Jun 25, 2022 01:10am
@Faisal Salman - Them posting "their" vacation pictures on "their" account is "their" business. No one is tagging these individuals or seeks their advice. Just because you see something online does not make it your responsibility to correct or criticize. The question is not about positive comments, its about when we will learn to control "ourselves" and learn that staying quiet is also an option. Just like no one tells you what to wear, this person has the same "right".
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Talha Jun 28, 2022 12:31pm
Well. When you showcase your private moments on social media, they become everybody's business, like it or not. People will not seek approval of the liberal brigade before posting comments - they will just speak their minds, like everyone else. You can't selectively vilify one set of comments. This whole sorry business of "twitterati rushing to defend someone who put their pictures for public use" is just getting tiresome. As for objectifying women - well, they are FAR MORE objectified by you guys rather than someone who merely comments on a picture
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