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07 Nov, 2025

Member of the National Assembly Sharmila Faruqi praised drama serial Pamaal for shedding light on the “mental suffering” and “emotional abuse” many women endure in silence at the hands of controlling partners.

Pamaal is a thought-provoking drama in which we see Malika, played by Saba Qamar, defy the odds and choose love over tradition, leaving behind the comfort, safety, and security of her father’s house for the unfamiliar. What she finds at her husband’s house, however, isn’t a bed of roses or the typical fairytale happy ending she had bargained for.

Malika’s husband, Raza, played by Usman Mukhtar, is everything she ever wanted in a husband: stable, thoughtful and devoted. But their life together as husband and wife starts off on unsure footing, and constraints slowly begin to creep up and tighten their hold around Malika, crushing her free spirit.

Speaking about the drama’s themes, Faruqi said that “psychological manipulation” within marriages is a deeply rooted issue in our society — one that continues to be “dangerously overlooked”.

“While physical violence is recognised as abuse, what remains dangerously overlooked is psychological manipulation, where husbands and families slowly break a woman’s spirit through humiliation, intimidation, gaslighting, and constant surveillance,” she said. “This is coercive control, and it is one of the most pervasive forms of domestic abuse.”

Green Entertainment’s Pamaal, written by Zanjabeel Asim Shah and directed by Khizer Idrees, delves into those very silent struggles — the kind that don’t always leave bruises but leave lasting scars. The series attempts to start a conversation about the mental and emotional abuse many women face in marriages masked by “care,” “protection,” or love that slowly turns into control.

Commenting on the unjust expectations placed on women in the role of a wife, Faruqi added, “No woman should be expected to surrender her voice, identity, and dignity to satisfy a partner’s insecurity or superiority.

“Marriage must be a partnership, not a prison.”

A large number of women seems to have connected with Pamaal’s portrayal of self-worth and navigating the emotional toll of toxic marriages, labelling it as a “must-watch”. Its quiet yet powerful portrayal of control and manipulation has resonated deeply online, opening up a long-ignored conversation about the unseen forms of abuse that exist behind closed doors.

Comments

Tahmad Nov 07, 2025 06:28pm
Our women must be respected by all men’s. Sadly we as men’s think all women’s are powerless, this is not right, we as men’s must respect our women and give them their rights to live side by side with men’s.
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JAMIL SOOMRO Nov 07, 2025 07:22pm
When Sharmila Faruqi speaks we all listen. It is always thought provoking.
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Ehsan Nov 07, 2025 07:30pm
The narrative regarding women in our country is that they’re weak, need support and cannot survive independently. Whereas they are totally opposite, we just don’t trust and respect our woman, but when a white woman comes, we are full of admiration for them
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Reality Nov 07, 2025 08:11pm
The story should have been better fr audience to feel sorry for the heroine. In many scenes mallika was plain stupid
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Laila Nov 07, 2025 08:42pm
If there is no respect , there is no marriage. Ji haan, aurat ki bi izzat hoti ha. I love Saba, but wont watch it, as I want to save myself the disappointment that is Pakistani dramas no matter how well they start out or how good the story may be. A country/culture that thinks a woman's basic right to respect, self-respect, rights, independence, voice, consent, agency, bodily and legal autonomy, are shameful, is abusive and oppression. Every day news. In October a woman was gang raped, brutalized, violated, assaulted, defiled, by her husband and in-laws. behind closed doors. Why? Because she dared asking for her rights. Today Jannat Usman of Lahore is bedridden, unable to speak. Control is not marriage, it is not islam. Its a regressive culture of institutionalised misogyny and abuse. It exists behind closed doors. As well in the open. Respect your wife or dont marry.
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nak lodhi Nov 08, 2025 08:46am
Malika appointed a new maid without verifying her background. She makes decisions abruptly without looking at the implications. Her husband is a reasonable and seasoned personality. The message of drama needs a revisit.
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najeeb Nov 08, 2025 01:47pm
It's true that the women are rendered powerless, but in this drama, the husband is justified in advising his wife to make decisions with consensus rather than making unilateral decisions. For instance, she employed a new maid without verifying her background.She left for grocery shopping alone in an unsafe area.
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Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad Nov 08, 2025 02:14pm
Please treat the green shirt women folks with respect, reverence, regard, admiration and dignity in all spheres, areas and sections of life and the society at large, both domestically as well as globally.
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nak lodhi Nov 08, 2025 02:58pm
We live in a patriarchal society. Males dominate over. However in Pamaal, the husband is reasonable and nice. His wife acts immaturely time and again, which sometimes enrages the husband sometimes.
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najeeb Nov 08, 2025 05:18pm
Men generally dominate women. But in Pamaal, the husband is considerate and polite but he has no choice but to advise his wife to behave naturally.
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JAMIL SOOMRO Nov 08, 2025 06:03pm
@ Laila You have put it beautifully, " If there is no respect, there is no marriage ". This strictly applies to both Man and Woman.?
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