How to respond when a sexual abuse survivor comes forward with their story
Almost every single woman you know has probably been the victim of sexual assault of some kind. Yes, it's a bleak thought but ask a woman to think back and she'll most likely have a story.
And many of these incidents can be traced back to their childhood.
It's an epidemic that is staring us in the face, in the wake of Zainab's rape and murder; child abuse is a rampant problem in our society, irrespective of class and gender, because men too are assaulted and abused.
Celebrities like actor Nadia Jamil, designer Maheen Khan and PR maven Frieha Altaf have opened up about their own experiences of sexual abuse. With so many people coming forward with their stories, it's important to react appropriately.
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The Cosby allegations, the Weinstein abuse and so many others have had a global ripple effect; we are now quicker to hold people accountable for their actions, we are more likely to believe people when they say something bad happened to them but there is still more work to do — there always is.
Here's some things to consider whether it's someone who confides in you personally or it's a #MeToo tweet you spot on social media:
Don't: Ask them why they took so long to come forward
Every time a woman opens up about sexual abuse, people come out of the woodwork saying "why now?".