Murphy first started showing off his ‘talent’ roughly around four years ago. “We were recording an alghoza (two-flute instrument) player in the studio. Murphy was getting very uncomfortable and started howling. It was impossible to record because you could hear him every time we recorded the flutes.”
They decided to stop everything. “I asked the alghoza player to play each flute one by one. It turns out one of the flutes was a little out of key with the other. And Murphy was howling in the right key the entire time!
That’s when Murphy became Ustad Murphy. “Murphy has a huge fan club in the artist community,” says Saif. “He’s does duets with some of them too.”
Lahooti Melo:
Earlier, Saif had mentioned to me that he and his team had decided that they would not be doing another Lahooti Melo. This was shocking, considering that the Melo has now become one of the biggest music festivals held in this part of the country. I asked him why.
“We like to engage young people when we’re working at the festival,” he began. A lot of those that volunteer and attend the festival as audience members are students between 16-19-years-old who get an opportunity to interact with professionals up close in the media and music industry. This provides them with access to opportunities in the future for career guidance or work etc.
“I saw women with the courage to share their stories, who were being very brave, and the backlash [they would get]. Their stories are haunting me,” says Saif.
It was shortly after the third Lahooti Melo earlier this year, when a group of young people were gathered at the Lahooti ashram, that a young girl found the courage to open up to Saif about a harrowing ordeal she had suffered at the hands of one of the guests from the first festival in 2016.
It was difficult for Saif to recount what had happened. He would often choke up in between. “He tracked her down on social media [after the festival concluded],” relates Saif. “He knew she was an artist and began complimenting her on her work. For someone who is very young and new, to have a known person show this much attention is a big deal,” adds Saif.
To cut a long and painful story short, the media person, in classic predator fashion, stalked his victim and got to know everything about her. He took his time to foster trust and a sense of closeness and eventually suggested they meet at the studio at his house.
Once there, he introduced her to his family, shared his own personal struggles, how he thought of her as his own child etc in an effort to make her feel comfortable. And just as she started to feel safe, he took advantage of her and forced himself on her.
“She felt lost afterwards,” adds Saif. “She felt like he had killed her soul and that she was completely helpless in front of such a well-known person.” Most victims, when undergoing trauma experience three kinds of reactions: fight, flight or freeze. The latter is quite common in which a victim is in such a state of shock he/she is unable to respond, react and they feel physically powerless.
It took her a few months to come to terms with what had happened. A short trip abroad didn’t help either. “The trauma was still fresh,” he relates. “She tried to commit suicide, twice. [Each time] she got some sleeping pills and took all of them. And then disconnected herself from everything.”
“I know several people who were named as predators. They are from this industry. They come to our events. These are the people we’re supposed to introduce to the younger generation as role models?” he asks.
Then the #MeToo movement happened. “I saw women with the courage to share their stories, who were being very brave, and the backlash [they would get]. Also, men like this media person who [sensing that their time might be up] would preemptively generate a narrative [around themselves], so that if they are accused, they can get away with it.”
But this issue isn’t restricted to the media industry alone. “These people exist in our cities and villages,” he adds. Eventually Saif turned to the online space and started speaking out against harassment and this culture which makes it easy for predators to take advantage of young people. His inbox was immediately flooded with responses from people, most of whom he knew personally, detailing their ordeals.
“Their stories are haunting me,” says Saif. “I know several people who were named as predators. They are from this industry. They come to our events. These are the people we’re supposed to introduce to the younger generation as role models?”
Feeling an immense sense of responsibility towards the individuals that attend the Melo, Saif and his team decided that they weren’t going to hold the festival anymore. “Because we don’t know who we’re calling and exposing to these young people,” he explains. “But it was [recently] suggested that we should do the [fourth] Melo and dedicate it to the #MeToo movement. To use our setback, turn it into our power and make people aware. I felt a little more hopeful then.”
However, he’s been very shocked, disappointed and disillusioned by the reaction he’s gotten from some of the people in the industry that he’s spoken to. “They said ‘Woh to hai hi aisa’ [Oh, he’s always been like this],” he says amazed. “My question to them is: then why are you still working with him? Stop working with this person. That’s the least they can do. Iss society ki zimmedari kidhar hai? [Where is this society’s responsibility?]”
“If they can’t break off with people like him, then they are a part of the problem. We grew up being told that artists feel the pain of society. Yeh kaun se artists hain jinn ko samaaj ke dard se koi leyna deyna nahin hai?” [What kind of artists are these that have no truck with society’s pain?]
Originally published in Dawn, ICON, November 11th, 2018