I'm judged for wearing makeup — and that's a problem
I remember buying this beautiful lipstick that I knew would look amazing on me. My day was made when I applied that berry lipstick. My day was ruined when my friends asked me 'Kon milne araha hai' (Who is coming to meet you?)
I laughed and said 'No one' but they didn't stop. Perhaps they couldn't hear the irritation in my laugh, but they were adamant that I must have dressed up to meet someone (A man) and for some reason my 'Yeah, you guys! was met with 'Oh please.'
I admit to being very low maintenance in general, but I do love skincare and I'm good at applying makeup. But unless I'm talking to a fellow beauty addict, this interest of mine has always been met with confusion.
If I meet someone through my love of video games and comic books they are stunned, wondering how it's possible for someone who jokes about being a geek to be obsessed with highlighters.
And on the other side those who know me through makeup simply refuse to believe my geeky side. On many occasions, I have been told I don't look like I'm into video games. Apparently if I say 'brows on fleek' I can't say 'pwned.'
But I get the most interesting reactions when I say I'm a feminist. The surprise, the 'You're kidding' and of course, 'You don't look like a feminist.'
And since over the years I have become too unapologetic for my own good, I never shy away from responding 'Why do I not look like a feminist?' The majority will respond by commenting on my berry lipstick. Because apparently, my lipstick undermines my feminist cred.